I Have No Problem With Interacial Relationships

I've Had Interacial Relationships And Proud Of It

By: KatDaRosa

Written on July 18th, 2012

I'm a mixed race girl(African American and white) and I've dated many men of all types of races. At first I started out dating black men only but finding white guys to be slightly attractive. All of that changed after I ended up going out with a white guy. Now my personal preference is white men but is that a deal breaker? Not at all. Personality and chemistry is, no matter what the race. My son is even half black and half Italian. I do get a lot of slack from my family because I don't date within my race, but it's my choice and if that person makes me happy then who cares about race.

By: KatDaRosa

Age: 22-25 , Female

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11 responses

Queen1989

I mean there comes a point in ur life u living ur life for yourself and not living your life for people or what they think and throw caution to the wind and he is your boyfriend regardless of what color he is provided he treats u right he is dating u not them and it's ur choice so let you be there are nice people in every race no a person for their character not color broaden horizon and have bigoted view

Jul 29, 2012
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ezjo

It all depends what keeps you happy... color race or anything does not matter.

Jul 21, 2012
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thatonecreepydude

If you're biracial, is it even possible to date within your race? If so, which race? I say race is just one more physical feature, like eye color or height, and letting something like that limit you is rediculous.

Jul 19, 2012
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- KatDaRosa
  It is but I don't look at race. I'm attracted to what I'm attracted to, and that most of the time has been white men but I enjoy any men of any race as long as personality is great
  
  Jul 19, 2012
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- thatonecreepydude
  That's a good way to be. Physical attraction is all well and good, but it can't keep a relationship going forever on its own.
  
  Jul 20, 2012
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- KatDaRosa
  So true, which is why I look for personality and chemistry
  
  Jul 20, 2012
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SunniL

All I have to say is: If it makes you happy, the family will get over it! People are just ignorant. I can't imagine telling one of my kids I did not approve of their bf/gf/spouse because of race, religion or whatever!

Jul 19, 2012
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CrazyWaterSpring

I love your attitude! My (white) family pretty much kicked me out when I showed up with an oriental wife and our five month old baby. We were married more than twenty years. Her family had no problem with me at all. A bigot's problem is themselves.

Jul 19, 2012
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- KatDaRosa
  I couldn't have said it better myself! I'm glad you at least have her family on your side, but good for you :) I wish you both the best!
  
  Jul 19, 2012
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SunniL

Hmm mixed race, meaning one parent white and one parent African American? Which parent is giving you the difficulty about dating within your race? *boggled* And you do know the best comeback from someone telling you that you should date within your race right?

"I am dating within my race. He's human. I don't date aliens."

Jul 18, 2012
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- KatDaRosa
  My father is half African American and White, my mother is full African American. And it's my mother's side, my parents are divorced so it's the side that is 100%. But I don't get that because we have a ton of races in our family but whatever.
  I LOVE that come back! lol
  
  Jul 18, 2012
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