I Have No Problem With Interacial Relationships

The Only Way Of Thinking That Makes Sense

By: flirtyvixen

Written on January 30th, 2013

In the world we live in, racism is dying out. I remember growing up, the fairly infrequent, but still jarring, soft racist comments that my father would make. It always puzzled me how he could even think this way. One time I remember him telling me that he was concerned that too many black men were marrying white women. He said he was concerned that then the black women wouldn't have anyone to marry. I think I was around 10 years old. I just remember thinking " Couldn't the black women just marry white men? Or asian men? Or hispanic men?" I mean seriously, why would he even think that way?

Then when I was 14, my first real boyfriend was black boy. He was such a cool person, and I really liked him. It didn't really even occur to me that my family might think our relationship odd. Not until my grandmother said to me with great concern "Fish and birds don't mate". WTF???!!! Yeah..... I'm pretty sure we're the same species grandma.

It is sooo long past time that we stop this nonsense, and just love and respect all people regardless of any physical traits that they might have. People can all love and have relationships with whomever they choose. And honestly, I didn't join this group because I feel like people need my approval for interracial relationships. I just wanted to be one more person that says it is time for peace and love and acceptance for everyone, no matter what. Let a person be judged by his actions, not by his color.

By: flirtyvixen

Age: 31-35 , Female

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ziggy530918

... and I am proud of all of you who think like this Lady. Thanks to all of you, I know I keep faith in humanity and I will continue to love it.

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ziggy530918

It is heartwarming to find still people who dare to assert their convictions. I'm proud of you. You're a Lady.

Mar 4
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Krylancelo

So much truth. We're all humans, no matter what race or ethnicity we are. It's a person's character that matters to me, not their skin. :)

Jan 31
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sightbeyondsight

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To be honest there is no such thing as interracial. there is One race of humans on the Earth . One race.many ethnic groups. This is a scientific fact.The rest is garbage /You're right skin color seriously doesn't prove anything .who and what a person is inside their actions or deeds , this is important. There are handsome/beautiful killers in this world and people are often fooled by superficial things. Oh he or she is cute , so what! that doesn't mean they aren't crazy , or insane. You're right .Look beyond layers and beyond what first appears and please don't make a judgement based on skin color , it's ignorant. May Peace Love & understanding prevail. I only ask that before people say race to think of how many Homo-sapiens are on the planet and to please let us know when they find a different species of man.The last time that I checked every human being is basically the same , has the same needs and desires and skin color seriously. plants have different colors , stars and planets have different colors , animals have different colors . only stupid human beings place a high value on skin color.

Jan 31
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DreamingTaoTiger

I guess the problem was culture and ignorance/fear base superstition. It's a generation and environment thing honestly...can I blame my grandparents for that or for not being entirely open minded in their old days? In that same line of reasoning I think those factors are always more important...and overlapping races gives that an irrelevant statistical approach...imho the only sensible conclusion is to find the most like minded person...the rest are details to make searching simpler

Jan 31
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