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Really? Only One??

yup.  and i married him.  i do sometimes wonder what it would be like if i had been more sexually active with others, but then i think that maybe i wouldn't like to have anything to compare us with.  if i had sex with others and thought they pleased me more in the bedroom, then i would know that something was lacking between me and my husband.  i think that our sex life could definitely use some work, but i love him and we have time to work on it.  practice makes perfect, right?  :P

mae03 mae03 18-21 7 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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I am not experienced enough to answer this story but I think this is amazing to have sex with only one person throughout your life. if u will start searching your sex partner u will be never satisfy because what I think......no matter how tricky and playful u are in bedroom but it only goes beyond the fire when love is mixed. When u do 'it', with the one u love, it is above than animal lust.....it makes u human being..........my partner has minor back bone problem.....sometimes I get scared...... what if he will not be able to do it in future......what will I do then.....I pray that this situation will never come in my life......he is so amazing in bed that I really beg from god to not to give me nightmares in the form of his sickness........it is just because how much he cares me during all the time........it makes me fall in love with him again.....

Hi Mae,
I honestly think that if my wife had sex or even something approaching with someone she cared about (or maybe just someone) she would have realized that I had something missing in my personality before Asperger Syndrome was known she would have left me. I feel sad for her.
I don't think I would have understood as a twenty year old, even if I knew about AS. But, I love her and am very sorry that I cannot make love (the whole thing, not just sex) as she deserves.
If your husband has AS, of the sort that I do, no amount of time will improve things. In fact without a whole lot of counseling it will only get worse. Even with counseling it will be tricky.

Sweetie, I have been married to the same man for many years and the sex is always great. You need to "work" it a little once in awhile to get what you want, if he is a man he will want to please you and you need to let him know what that is when you want it.

Sweetie, I have been married to the same man for many years and the sex is always great. You need to "work" it a little once in awhile to get what you want, if he is a man he will want to please you and you need to let him know what that is when you want it.

I've only been with my husband, but I'll say we have AMAZING sex, he knows exactly what turns me on, how to bring me to ******, etc.



I always say I trained him well lol. TOO WELL IMO.



Good sex is good sex, you know if something is lacking in the bedroom, and the best thing to do is tell your partner what you want.



After ten years sex still is amazing for us :)

I have had quite a few myself, although I dont come (intended!) near 44 (!)... and I can tell you this: there were a few that I really, really, really enjoyed. And there were a few that I can quite honestly say I now wished I had never even batted my eyes at, much less slept with! Since the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, keep in mind that once you are there, the grass where you are now will look better!

I think there is nothing wrong with only sleeping with one person - as for lack of comparison, you can still tell bad sex from good even with just the one partner. Practice doesnt make boredom - there are alot of variations and things to practice at!

I hope you guys have fun practicing! As long as you giggle when it doesnt quite work rather than get sad and frustrated then you'll be fine ironing out any kinks in your sexual wardrobe. Unless your into kinks of course!!