Feeling Hopeless ...

I am 24 years old and recently married. About 2 months after I became married I found out I have PCOS . Makes fertility very hard. So my family doctor sent me to a specialist in my town and after only seeing me twice he determined I have pof. Heart broken because my husband and I have been trying to have a baby and its all we think about. I am very lost and cry all the time. I'm always sad and can't seem to bring myself up from this funk. Feeling like I have gained alot of weight and very down on myself. Not sure what to do or where to go from here. This specialist has referred me to another specialist outside of town but he had told me to not get my hopes up because the odds r not on my side. Where do I go from here?
Maggiev88 Maggiev88
22-25, F
1 Response Jan 10, 2013

Im so sorry to hear. I was diagnosed about two years ago when I was 27. We too had just decided it was time to have a baby and my periods suddenly stopped. Heart braking and felt like my world would end. Still do sometimes especially dealing with these crazy menopausal moods! All I can say time does heal, its slow but helps. To quote the specialist I saw "You have a better chance winning the lottery than ever getting pregnant." Ive had to allow myself to basically grieve over the loss of my fertility... I hope you have people around you that will let you cry, get angry and help you deal. Support is a big help.

Same here also I'm man but don't have baby cry for whole life