My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year now and we've had problems literally from the start. Since realizing things wouldn't be perfect, it's been on and off with things getting a little more extreme every time. Recently, I've realized that things have gotten better, that I could just cut arguments short, early on before it got worse, sleep on it and she'd be happy to talk to me the next morning. I thought I found a real solution, or a temporary one. After arguing until 5am last night (this happens every so often), I realized things might not be getting better after all. Everyone tells me she seems uninterested or unimpressed by my efforts to cheer her up, or act cheerful myself around her (though I find it tough the way she treats me...). Yet when someone else comes by shes all smiles. After almost a year of this torture is it time to hang it up? She threatens to break up with me constantly but after awhile I feel immune to her threats...though sometimes I wonder if it's really what she wants...it's difficult to explain the situation, only because I feel it's so ridiculous myself and that I never thought my girlfriend would act this way...I just feel unappreciated for everything I do...what do I do...take the jump?