Crappy Relationships


update

i have relationships with married men so that i do not have to make commitments. if they are not married they have relationships that are serious with other women. I am so uncomfortable with myseactually he did leave his wife. not because of me because she is crazy! and i am not making that up......she is bipolar and wont take meds. they tried to work it out and couldnt! we were just friends for years and it grew to more. i dont feel like he betrayed her for me........ the divorce papers are being signed this week.

other relationships i have had with married or single men have never developed over time as much as this one has and i actually feel really good about where this is going!lf right now that it is easier to just have nocomitale relationships that it is to face how i feel about myself.



jeb1115 jeb1115
31-35, F
7 Responses Nov 18, 2006

Type your comment here...actually he did leave his wife. not because of me because she is crazy! and i am not making that up......she is bipolar and wont take meds. they tried to work it out and couldnt! we were just friends for years and it grew to more. i dont feel like he betrayed her for me........ the divorce papers are being signed this week.<br />
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other relationships i have had with married or single men have never developed over time as much as this one has and i actually feel really good about where this is going!

but dont you think you desesrve best things than married men. sorry but your not doing good, dont you think about there wives. i would feel guilty or if i was their wives i would be very hurt.

I'm sorry but you have relationships with married men because you don't want to commit? Do you think of the fact that you are ruining the commitment he made to his wife? If you are seeking married men you are just as guilty as he is. If you don't want to commit to someone don't break commitments others have made.

I find having relationships with married work out fine. They don't talk about it like single men may do, they don't expect me to be "faithful", they've usually had enough sexual experience to be good in bed, they don't feel devastated when I'm through with them, they usually feel guilty and give their wives special gifts and attention,<br />
One of my woman friends asked me to please **** her husband a few times, but let him know who wanted it. It would improve their marriage, and it did. And I had a lot of fun doing it. Helene

I find having relationships with married work out fine. They don't talk about it like single men may do, they don't expect me to be "faithful", they've usually had enough sexual experience to be good in bed, they don't feel devastated when I'm through with them, they usually feel guilty and give their wives special gifts and attention,<br />
One of my woman friends asked me to please **** her husband a few times, but let him know who wanted it. It would improve their marriage, and it did. And I had a lot of fun doing it. Helene

Run as far as you can away from this MM he dont really cre about you! come on ,he will never leave his wife!

I have recently found myself in almost the same position....Almost ALL of the men that I'm attracting to myself right now are married, living with a woman or are otherwise inaccessible. I know it's because I'm afraid of being left or rejected...it's safe...and, these things aren't healthy. But, I also know that I'm SO vulnerable right now....and SO lonely....and SO starving for love, affection and attention that, if I were fooling with anyone who was truly accessible, I'd jump into a relationship (that I'm CLEARLY) not ready for to fast. This is something I definitely plan to get over. But, it was cool to hear from someone who might know how I feel.<br />
Thanks!