Worried About Sex With A Heavy Guy
I feel terrible about this and really would need some advice.
I'm friends with benefits with this one guy. We had sex once and it was great. The thing is, he's almost twice heavier than I am. This is something very new to me. I really like my partner as a person and our first night was amazing, but I'm still a little embarrassed about touching certain parts of his body (mainly stomach). I'm 120 lbs 5 ft 8 and would hate to somehow offend him by doing something that would make him self-conscious (he confessed that he doesn't like his body that much). I honestly don't mind his weight and normally feel comfortable talking about whatever with him, but when it gets to facing that he is pretty big in comparison to me, I just freeze up and don't know how to proceed - I'm so afraid to somehow appear critical with my questions or embarrass him. Can I touch his flabby parts? What to do about the whole big belly thing? Is he afraid he will crush me when he's on top? I really feel like I could be better in bed if I wasn't that worried about all of this.
Perhaps, this sounds very silly, but again, I've never had sex before with anyone as big as he is and I really need some pointers. Maybe how I could talk to him about that yet still remaining sensitive? Is it even OK to talk to him about this? Or if you have similar personal experiences that could help me?
Please, no tongue-in-cheek comments. This matter is very serious for me.