I have been Married for 22 years, my wife is 40 I'm 42 and I have this fantasy of watching my wife with another guy.…and I cant get it out of my head .
Me too!! I think when you have been married this long, i have been for twenty years, you feel confident in yourself and your relationship. I couldn't have done it when we were young but now it turns us both on when we talk about it.
Is she aware of your quest? Does she at least act a bit flirty when the two of you are together and bump into other men? Encourage her to dress a tad revealing, keep telling her how hot / attractive / sexy she looks... Tell her that other men are checking her out and you're proud of that admiration... Keep us posted!