I have trouble feeling comfortable around anyone. Which means it's hard for me to live with people and make or keep friends. So here I am feeling so alone because I have almost no friends and have never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. This is one of the worst things about my social anxiety; the feeling that I will forever be alone because of it.
hippopotamusluv hippopotamusluv
22-25, F
3 Responses Feb 27, 2016

man I feel the same, it's so hard to live with that fear, I'm pretty scared at this

There are nice, non-judgmental people out there, but you do have to make an effort to find them.

That's true but the thing i really need to work on is to stop thinking people are judging me even when they aren't.

I feel the same. But on a different level. I think that I've spent too much time being alone by choice and being comfortable with loneliness so to speak. That i have trouble sustaining any real relationships bc I think that I have built a wall

I can relate to this, particularly in my younger years. It does feel safer than the imagined... eventual failure.