I Dont Understand Myself

Why do I not have any friends when I feel like im super nice and sweet... Im a person who would do anything for anyone if I knew them... and I also dont really care about myself and I care more about other people.... but yet Ive been told that I cant care about anyone because I dont care about myself...
LifeIsCrazy2005 LifeIsCrazy2005
22-25, M
2 Responses May 6, 2012

I used to be very much like you in the sense that I cared more about others and their feelings than I did my own....................I still do to a small degree, it's just who I am. However, I did begin to realize that some took advantage of that(not my real friends) and I had to put a stop to the "doormat" effect that was happening. <br />
I agree with guerao8o8, take time for yourself, time to like and love who you are and what you have to offer others. Good Luck!!

things will all work out!!!! maybe those friends that you had werent really your friends>>> i am a loner,, i am actually living much happier keeping my distance>> get to know yourself and what makes you happy,, that will allow you to be happy and make others happy.!! good luck to you

Thanks for the support im also a loner and im gonna keep it that way