No One Is Innocent.

I am not going to pretend I know all about the drama that has gone on around here, because frankly I don't care to, and I do my best to stay away from it.

That being said, I do have a few things I would like to say about the subject of drama.

What is drama? I personally like urban dictionary's explanation:

Something women and especialy teenage girls thrive on. Consisting of any number of situations that have an easy solution, which would bring a fairly good outcome, but these girls choose another, ******, bad way to deal with it, again consisting of backstabbing, blackmailing/gossiping/betraying their friends.  Or the all-too-common "I want to break up with him but i still love him!" It drives men and what I like to call "normal" girls nuts.

Sound familiar? It's not only reserved to the women and girls around here either.

I won't mention any names. However surprisingly, I have noticed that some who are playing the violins now, are ones who have been a integral part of some of the drama around here. Take a look at yourselves. (And I will too) What have you personally done to stoke the fire or to put it out?

Actions and behaviour of one is either fed, or ignored. Simple as that.

Experience Project is a place where you should be able to voice your opinions. Not everyone is going to agree with those opinions. That is life people. However when one resorts to name-calling, and all the antics that are mentioned in the above description of drama, then you are no better than anyone else who you may be pointing a finger at.

I may be a Toad, but I have a memory like an elephant.
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22 Responses Apr 20, 2011

Theres enough of the back stabbing ,fighting name calling going on in the real world lets all remember why we came to EP to get help,to have some fun or to help <br />
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Please remember if you can't say nothing nice don't say!

Toady, you are soooo right and life is to short for all sorts of drama. Why not doing the opposite? Say nice things to grumpy people!

well said!!

*Brut nods in agreement with the author*

Great story, Toady. Some people are always involved in the latest drama. Makes me think of my latest story of the quote from Mark McGrath. "Take a big swim in Lake You and see what you find."

OMG I can't believe you just posted that! That's about me right?? You're such a *****! I hate you! <br />
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*screams and stamps feet*<br />
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Oh I'm sorry Toady, can you ever forgive meh?? I love you bestest!

Nice one

I'm innocent, as far as drama goes. I don't bother with stuff like that. Simple as that.

Everyone is innocent...until proven guilty.<br />
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OR<br />
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No one is innocent (other than about a dozen popes).<br />
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Which is real, and which is an illusion?...stay tuned for the next EPisode of your favorite drama.

Exactly. There are lots of flashy people that come and go. Some weeds that never go away.<br />
I'll gladly be a perennial, but I could use some pruning.

Annuals are great for the blooms and color. But they fade away and don't come back. You, My Dear Lilt, are a perennial.

Don't forget the annuals, Myo!

This is why EP is addictive. The drama we so loathe leads to stroking and a hijacked thread. Ya gotta love it. <br />
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I've been here for almost 3 years... people are people, here, there, and everywhere. Over time, you learn the weeds from the perennials. =)

pervert drama suits best i think.

preaching to the choir.

hahaha my circle is full of pervs!

Toady be careful stroking. I've lit you on fire twice already.

lmao Fire <br />
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Totally right Toady. Yes, ive been guilty too. I shall try to keep my drama away from my precious lovies. (hence, troll account *cough*)

I like it when people stroke the Fire... Oh stoke..... nevermind.

Yes, McToady, no one is innocent, but some are naive, and not all are guilty.

Excellent, Toad!<br />
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Too many violins. I can't hear the cellos, damn it!

You tell them, Toady! Drama is just boring. Maybe those who thrive on it find it exciting but I fail to see the point.