Do You Know What....

..the sad thing is...

I just came on and checked out confession without logging on. It showed confessions from yesterday. Do you know what I saw? Ones where people are throwing insults at each other. Im not saying Im inoccent in this game, far from it, but it proved that we have ruined something that started out as a good thing.

This place is no longer for healing or shaing insults. We've destroyed something beautiful

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10 Responses Feb 16, 2009

I agree with BLL. Stay. Just take a sabbatical or a holiday or something. Then come back to us. You are my partner in the Boobs Mission.

I agree...<br />
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Somewhatbent: What war?

this is our community.<br />
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we can build it up just the same way we tore it down. its harder than tearing it down, but its so doable. and i think its worth doing

Yeah, if everyone would act like the adults that they are... I mean, c'mon. I'm only 19 and I'm not pulling some of the bullshit that these 30, 40, 50 year old individuals are. I never thought I would have to tell people that are old enough to be my parents to grow up. But, really... Grow up. All of you. Knock it the **** off. I'm in a discussion now with sunstone and so far that's what it is... A discussion. We don't agree but we're not throwing our **** on each other. It IS possible to argue without resulting to childish behavior.

I think the "good" people out number the "bad" ones. We can take back EP if we just ignore their pleas for attention.

Someday ep will have to realize that at least anonymous confessions have to go..

The problem with anonymity is the same as it's always been: Without accountability, anyone can say anything and not have to suffer the consequences of their actions. This is true of nearly every "anonymous" forum I've ever been a part of - be it internet, print, or even local bulletin board related. <br />
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Sad, but true.

that why I tend to just stay in my circle and don't comment on a lot of stuff because it seem to add fuel to the fire. I don't have an issue with anyone who disagrees with me. we are all different. just say what you believe and let that be it. yet some just want to find a way to get your goat. I just don't respond to them.<br />
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It is not going to matter where you go there will always be those who try to turn something good something bad. What matters is how you decide to not fall into the same role. <br />
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continue to use the site for it's intended purpose with those who feel the same. those who do not want to do that will just have to deal with each other and not get the good things out of being here.

Moo, a lot of people, including myself,<br />
cannot begin to understand the bashing here.<br />
I find it upsetting and tedious.

you know what tho? WE can change it also :)