Another 'postive Attitude' Approach

Ok,here I will say that observation and thinking are the most important,maybe some experience helps too,but without thinking,we are just walking on the same way again and again.I know some people are really strong to love again and again.But do you know that they are extremely tired,heartbroken and sad?Do you know that they are crying every night alone on the bed?If we don't know why we should do this and just call it strong,the unknow will also bring the so-called weak.

They can never find the right one to love without thinking.The "relationship" will break one day.As life goes by,they have to accept the"fact" that there is nothing called love.Here the reason I give the double quotation marks to the fact is that the fact is just the fact to themselves.Whatever,some people may call it "truth".As I said before,someday when you realise that the truth we discovered can be covered by another truth,you will know why I put the double quotation marks on the word truth.



----Whatever happens in life happens for a good reason.



Oh,my.So you teach people to be ignorant.

Where is the good reason?Will you tell me that God knows?Ok,I am not here arguing with you about your religion.

Where does the Good come from?It comes from thinking.It makes us enlightened.



----The pain of being dumped is unbearable. People say that it is easier to bear the pain of separation because of death as compared to the pain of being ditched or dumped



People say?Where has your mind been?

Where does the pain come from?The separation?The death?Who are you afraid of?Yourself or the other people.

Here I think I have to add something.

Thoughts have no edge,but before we take them into ation,we must consider as much as we can.This is why we need history and knowledge.

(How do you know that the pain of death is wrese than the pain of separation?Uh...this question is to the people who are reasonable enough)



----When you get dumped it gives the feeling that you are unacceptable to the other person. You should never blame yourself for such a situation



It gives the feeling that you are unacceptable to the other person.Is the feeling true?Ok,now it's your feeling,do you know what the feeling of the other person is?Do you really know them?Does the feeling that you don't know them make you feel you are unacceptable?No one to blame.Then why would you feel ashamed of yourself?



----You should also not feel ashamed of yourself. You need to think that the other person was simply not compatible to you. The feeling of guilt and shame are killing in nature and take you the dearth of depression



Such a bad person you are.You are going to make people ignorant again,aren't you?Here,you said they don't need to feel ashamed,you bring the guilt and shame to them.



----- You should try to have a positive attitude towards life. Believe that life brings new hopes and opportunities everyday. You need to forget your past to grab these opportunities



Sometimes we lose ourselves in sadness and the reason is gone,we need some positive attitude.But it won't work when we are not sad.So think about the past when you are not sad and make it reasonable.



---------Being dumped is direct mark to your self-esteem. To regain your self esteem you need to get over whatever happened and try getting into a brand new healthy relationship. This would immensely increase your self confidence.



What do I see in the selfesteem?Ignorance,selfish,hate and fightings.

What does healthy relationship mean?Should I say that you don't have a healthy mind?

Where does your self confidence come from?A healthy relationship?Then crash,break up...again and again...till you can't find self confidence...then finally you start to think about it...holy crap...you shout with extreme joy...I find my self confidence...Uh...no offence



---It is very rightly said that love is blind.



Ok,this is just another positive attitude.

Don't fool people with flaw and merit.Is it the love you want?



----------You should also keep on moving with the pace of life. You should try to have a positive attitude towards life. Attitude is what matters. You should not waste your time thinking what and why it happened. There are many other things need to be accomplished. There are so many new opportunities waiting. You need to make yourself ready for these by forgetting your bitter past.



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How could you keep fooling people like this and make them suffer again?



---Every human being is unique in his/her own way. You also have some qualities which unique.



How can your words be accepted without logic?

Every human being is different.Yeah,this can be said as unique.Then you said some qualities which unique.How we define the word quality?How many qualities do human beings have?



--You should get over with all the past memories.

By making them reasonable not just an excuse.



No,don't use the word"positive"and"attitude"again.

I don't think you will use them when you get the things reasonable.

Don't be afraid that the feelings will be gone.They are just changed.



What brings the war？

The hatred,selfish...

Should I say that they blind your eyes?