My New Ink

So I got a new tattoo a couple days ago.  Been wanting this one for almost two years. It's kinda my F you to my ex husband and all the others who controled my life.  I absolutely love it!!  Only problem is my boyfriend doesn't really like it.  I have two other's so it's not like he didn't know I like them, also he's been listening to me go on and on about getting it.  Now understand I don't regret getting it, I love it and am thrilled that I got it.  I just wish that maybe he would have like it, maybe thought it was sexy.  He liked my others, maybe becasue I had them when he met me so they were just part of who I am.  Oh well he's just gonna have to suck it up and learn to love it just as much as i do.

ifsogirl ifsogirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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I have 9 tats some people like them others do not but you know what I don't real care

If your boyfriend cares for you the fact you got inked should not matter

Did you explain what the ink means to you to you bf maybe that will give him a better understand of why you did got it

Wow its gorgeous and so declarative of your own personal power- those qualities I believe make the best tattoos. Well he doesn't like it for now but heres a whole page who thinks you are a bad *** for it : )

That is beautiful. If the boyfriend does not like it, tell him to go take a flying leap. You are now the only one in control of your life. Live it to it's fullest and enjoy every moment.

I'm happy you've got through the past.

Tattoo looks really well done.

How long/sessions did it take?

This took about 1 1/2 hrs, just one session. I did the entire outline with no numbing gel, the ribs and hipbone hurt like mad. The artist said I was starting to twitch and the fill was going to hurt more and suggested the gel just to make it easier on her.