I Have Shared My Crossdressing With A Few WomenThere are a few women that know about my crossdressing. My wife knows, of course, but there are a few others. Mostly ex-girlfriends. From the time I entered college, the girls I dated with whom I had somewhat serious relationships all learned of my crossdressing.
It's interestiing, because all of them accepted my CDing to some extent. A couple of girls found it "interesting" and were curious to see it. Of course, after seeing me in a dress, pantyhose and high heels once or twice, they got past the curiosity element, and were not exactly excited to see me dress up.
One girl I dated was a bit kinkier, and enjoyed it more. But she and I just didn't quite click, and so the relationship didn't last long.
My wife is understanding and accepting, but my CDing is not a turn on for her.
I have also shared my CDing with a few women that are friends.
Two of them were accepting. One friend is amused by it all. She likes seeing my legs in hose, and has even borrowed my heels a couple of times. Another female friend was curious to see me totally enfemme, but wanted to share that experience at a hotel room. The problem was that we're both married, and I was not interested in having sex with her and cheating on our spouses.
Two of my friends were less than acceptings. I was opening up to one friend and told her about the time I dressed as a girl for Halloween. She asked if I had worn pantyhose. I said yes I had. She then gave me a big, "Eeeeeewwwwww!" That was enough for me not to finish the story and fess up about my CDing. I shared the Halloween story with another friend, who told me in a very repulsed manner, "that is SOOOO gay!" She stopped talking to me after that, so we are no longer friends.
I know it's a tough thing for CDs to share their secret with people. It's something that we all wish we could be much more open about. But so many people can't handle it. It's a tactical thing to tell someone when you aren't sure how they will react. You hope they will accept it, but if they don't, you hope that they will honor your secret. It's not that I am worried about losing a friend by telling someone, as much as I fear what would happen if they began telling everyone else about it.