Boyfriend Trouble

I have no one to talk to about this because none of my sisters have had boyfriend and I don't have close friends, I also want to talk to someone who dosent know him. Anyway, he is my first boyfriend and he says he will go at my pace as he is willing to be patient and he won't presure me into doing anything but tonight he really tried to go for it and when I said no he just kept asking why, I didn't back down or cave in but I felt like i should of said yes, and that I annoyed him by saying no, I just don't understand what he means sometimes. Also after 3 weeks of being together he said he loves me... Is that to soon?
Ermr Ermr
18-21, F
1 Response Nov 29, 2012

As someone who was once very much like this young man, id say give it some time and space. When i was young i would have said that to you to get you to give me your virginity. I clearly dont know you or him. But id say you need to know what his intentions are before giving yourself to him. If hes really moody it probably means he thinks he can control with the things he says and does and when you dont do what he wanta he gets angry or manipulative. At least thats how i was at your age.

Thakyou :)