I Don't Like Upseting People

I hate hurting other people.

But I kind of think its better to upset them now than continue hurting them in the future.

I broke up with my boyfriend last Monday, as we were at each others' throats: basic personality clash, values, beliefs... We love each other to pieces, but I couldn't handle resenting him for irritation / annoyances any longer.

I upset him a lot. He knew we were having problems, was fine with it that day, but then turned into pleading "what do I need to change" guy. I really wish that I didn't have to upset him.
Rhan Rhan
26-30, F
1 Response Jun 26, 2007

you are right, sometimes it is better to upset someone now, then to drag out the hurt through more time. Stick to your guns, you know you made your decision for a reason, and don't get back together until the underlying issues have actually changed.