There Is Nothing Wrong With It

I'm proud to be a virgin.
To me, it shows I'm not easy, It shows that I won't just fall for any guy, that I have to know they will stay at least. That I don't fall for temptation as easily as some women do. Plus I don't have to worry about whether a condom has broken while intercourse, or if I am pregnant, or whether I will have an infection.
I don't feel ashamed at all. I feel really good about it.
RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa
18-21, F
16 Responses Jul 10, 2010

More power to ya. There are tons of people I've met who I wish I wouldn't have let that judgement get the best of me, but hey it happens. Stay strong girl!

Sexuality is a personal choice. If someone likes a lot or a little bit...at any given time...they get to decide without judgment of others.

Most women are okay with remaining virgins for extended periods of time, because society sees it as a good thing.<br />
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I am a male virgin that is looked at as a loser.

I don't do it based on Societies standards, I'm a anarchist and anti-social =/ as well as a misanthropist. And, even though you never said I did, I wanted that to be noted. You seem to reply to my posts often as well as replying to people on my posts. Want to tell me why?.

i think you will find as a male virgin,we have a harder time being one, years ago it was some thing to look up to,but now anything goes,morals have gone out the window,so now i think it is looked down on,i am a 60 year old male virgin,and i am happy to say so.

"do you plan to lose ur virginty in the future?and who is the guy that you really want to give your virginity to."-------->Yes I do. And who the guy is, is really on a personal matter only.

do you plan to lose ur virginty in the future?and who is the guy that you really want to give your virginity to.

Yeah. Hi5. You are respectable. I think having your virginity intact shows you arent gullible or stupid and that you value yourself and are in control. Guys that have respect for women will have a lot of respect for you, especially when nowadays its so easy to lose your virginity to any random guy. Well done ;)

It's wonderful to see that there is still celibacy in some guys!!

I am happy to say that I am still a virgin. The Lord knows it gets hard sometimes but I am determined to keep his commands. I continue to pray that despite temptation that I make it to wedding day. I'm taking it day by day.

Indeed, it's a good thing to abstain. It's good to stay a virgin until marrige . I was a virgin until 22yrs, unfortunetly i gave in to a guy before marrige commitments. And thats why sex flooded me with shame, pain and regrets. He later pregnant me and damp me. I gave birth to cute baby girl, she is now 1 and half yr old. Sex before marrige it's like a poisonours honey it hurts it even kill.

Indeed, it's a good thing to abstain. It's good to stay a virgin until marrige . I was a virgin until 22yrs, unfortunetly i gave in to a guy before marrige commitments. And thats why sex flooded me with shame, pain and regrets. He later pregnant me and damp me. I gave birth to cute baby girl, she is now 1 and half yr old. Sex before marrige it's like a poisonours honey it hurts it even kill.

as the worlds oldest living male virgin at 57 well done to all of you,hold your head up high,and be proud ,it shows we are not sheep,we are leaders,not followers, we will not be put down,by those that have no morals or standards.

I agree with all of the above. I only date girls who are virgins. I am also one. GUess there are still a few of us guys who are still virgins out here for girls such as yourself.

Wow. Thanks to all of you. I'm glad you enjoyed my story. Thank you for your kind comments. :3

Im a virgin to and i feel great about it its nice to know someone out there is too:)

I have much respect for you. I am the only one out of my friends who is still a virgin. I am 18 years old and looking back, while I have been tempted, not giving in has been the best decisions of my life. There is not one guy who I can think of who I would have been happy to have lost my virginity to. I want to save it for someone who loves me.<br />
Stay strong! You are not alone :)

well done, welcome to the world of the virgins,we all have something to be proud of,and being a virgin is one of them,it shows morals and standards .