Is This True In Real Life

I watched a movie called What is Love and they talked about the 11th man theory. It goes like this; if a woman is in a room with ten guys who treat her nice and tell her she is beautiful and so on, but the 11th guy walks in and igores her. He does not care what she thinks and does not tell her she is beautiful and smart, but she will go after this guy because he is not trying to get to know her. They said this is why nice guys never have relationships that last. This theory could apply to men or women, but in the movie it was about women. I don't subscribe to this, but I have seen some woman who seem to be attracted to the bad boy.

Librastar Librastar
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4 Responses Feb 28, 2009

I had never heard of this until I watched the movie. I mean I know some women and men who like the bad boy or girl, but I don't subscribe to it. I myself just go about life being me and if someone doesn't like me for me then fine. It is good to see people can discuss this without going after each others throats.

Chasing the cat is always more fun than catching it.

I figured it was made up for the movie, but was not for sure. The whole thing just go my curiosity up. Good to know though.

This is no theory but fact the girl will always go for the ******* and the ones who say no are fibbing. A close friend of mine has admitted that she as well as all women do this.