(sorry to post/delete/repost, I had a ton of issues for some silly reason!)
I was in a long term "sexless" relationship for about 7 years (thankfully never married him). I'm still quite young, and while out of that relationship, I'm still obsessdly neurotic about it. I worry all the time that my new relationship will go the same way, sexless, that I'll get married and be 5 years in when he'll decide to no longer want me. I read all the Sexless Marriage/ Relationship stories and internally (and sometimes openly) lament with their sadness. I was at least able to leave, what if someday I can't? Sometimes I even have trouble fully communicating how I feel towards a man because I don't want him to "know" I want him, he might stop trying =(. I'm a very sexual person, and so if the man I'm seeing now, but I can't help this awful nagging feeling that if I let myself fall in love, it'll all change and I won't be able to leave a second time around from that kind of situation (i.e. a marriage). Hopefully at least some of what I wrote is coherent, thanks for listening.