Cuckold Vs HotwifeI became familiar with Experience Project awhile back when i googled cuckold and hotwife and ended up here.
Why did I google those words? Because my husband had broached the subject, and I, probably like most wives, thought he was crazy.
But I played along with it during sex, talking about his fantasy and, about former lovers, about guys I found hot, etc. So lately I've been curious, and started reading more on the internet about the subjects. To my surprise I found articles in mainstream publications as well as at least one book written on the subject. So I started becoming more and more curious about just how widespread this fantasy or actual participation in a lifestyle really is. Now I believe that the fantasy in one form or another is very common in men.
So what is the definition of cuckold. Its a term that goes way back centuries. Shakespeare used it a couple of times. It referred to a married man who's wife cheated, usually without his knowledge. Today common usage is more about a man who's wife has sex with other men and the husband experiences some form of humiliation. So another term has come into use, hotwife. This is a woman who has sex with other men, with her husband's permission, but there is not the humiliation involved. In both cases the husband remains faithful to the wife.
So why am I stating what most of you probably already know? Because I would like to start a dialog with some people about the subject. I'm not sure how to go about it, I've been a member of Experience Project for quite awhile but never really participated.
So if you are a man with one of these fantasies, or a woman or man or couple who have actually practiced the lifestyle, or maybe a woman who cheated and found her husband was OK with it, I would love to hear from you.
I might post this in different experiences so as to get the most contacts.
KellyTravels 36-40, F 7 Responses 4 Sep 3, 2013