How To Turn Your Husband Into A Cuckold

Turning your husband into a cuckold can be one of the most rewarding things you ever do. A successfully cuckolded husband will be completely submissive. He will satisfy all your sexual cravings, manage all the mundane chores of your life, allow you to sleep with whomever you wish, subject himself to any amount of humiliation you desire, and of course, love you unconditionally.

But be warned, cuckolding can also be one of the most challenging things you ever do. The process is long, complicated, energy consuming, and by no means sure of success. The strain on your marriage will be unbelievable, and it may be weeks or months before you succeed. In the end though, it will be worth it.

Hopefully this will help educate women on how to begin the wonderful journey of female domination and to hopefully relieve some of the apprehension that might prevent a woman from ever trying. After reading this it will be clearer that cuckolding your husband is not as hard as it seems, and that accomplishing this feat is more possible than you thought.

The most common reason a women doesn't cuckold her husband is that she thinks he'll never go for it - that he's not the type. This is such a myth that it must be dispelled immediately. Many cuckolds begin as ordinary husbands. Your husband may even be as manly as men come, but don't worry, cuckolding is often just a matter of helping your hubby discover his submissive side. Take heart in the fact that underneath all his machissimo and pride, there is a **** loving wimp that is begging you to force him to do all sorts of nasty things.

First train yourself

Think of cuckolding as an expertise. For the wife who decides to cuckold her husband, she must have complete mastery of certain skills. Much like in any profession - she must go to school, read, and practice. So like a professional, before you ever begin training your husband, you must first train yourself. You're about to go on an incredible journey; you want to be prepared, right?

The world of cuckolding is unlike the normal world. It has various rules and customs that are different from everyday life, of which you must be aware. You must immerse yourself in this new culture. To begin, start reading erotic stories that deal with cuckolding. Many women before you have cuckolded their husbands and recorded their experiences. Also many men have written about their decent into female domination. Learn from them. Reading stories will acquaint you to the new world of cuckolding and will prevent you from having to reinvent anything. Beyond stories, you may want to read books on female domination, and buy videos of dominatrixes humiliating men.

You must also train yourself to be sexually independent. If you want to control your husband you need to not need his penis. In the future you will need to deny your husband the pleasures of your body and this will be only possible if you are strong enough to abstain from sex. Sex between you and your hubby is probably pretty vanilla anyway if you're thinking about cuckolding him, so it shouldn't be too hard. ********** often. Splurge on vibrators, ******, lotions, clothing, and ***********. Have fun! Visit your local sex shop and ask for ideas. You may also want to think about buying toys that, after using on yourself, you can also use on your husband once he's properly trained. The key is whenever you really have the urge for a *******, train yourself to seek satisfaction from a source other than your husband. For example, when you're horny, take out your vibrator.

A good way to help your training along is to change your appearance. Make it your goal to become a hotwife. The prime focus of a hotwife is expressing her sexuality in all manners, from the type of shoes she wears to the way she shaves her *****. A hotwife wears tight fitting clothes as much as she can. She wears short skirts, perfume, and high-heels all the time. She does her hair and wears makeup daily. At night she wears sexy lingerie. She goes to the gym often. When she goes to the grocery store she doesn't wear underwear. If you start doing thing like these, not only will you be sending a signal to your husband that you've changed, but you'll be sending a signal to yourself. Because you look like a hotwife, you'll think you're a hotwife, and then you'll be a hotwife! The advantages to being a hotwife are numerous. Your husband will lust for you much more, even if he doesn't show it, other men will croon over you (this will increase your confidence), and your sexual energy will increase, all of which you can channel into power.

Also feel free to start flirting. It's probably been a long time since you've flirted with another man, so you'll need practice. Look men in the eyes and smile. If you drop something in the office, bend over without bending your knees. At night go out with girlfriends that like to party. Make it a goal to flirt with at least one man a day. The key is to increase you're confidence. Not only will it be very satisfying to know that there are other men out there who are interested in you, but in the back of your mind you can use this knowledge as leverage against your husband.


Once you've properly educated yourself in the art cuckolding, freed yourself from your husband's ****, and increased your confidence, it's time to begin.

The first submission of your husband is the most challenging phase of the process. Even if he wants to be your slave, he will resist. There are many reasons he will do this like gender stereotypes and the years of routine between you, but first and foremost will be that he wants to save face. Not only can he not admit to you that he wants to be your *****, but he can't admit it to himself either. He will never just give you power over him even though he wants to. This would violate his manhood. You need to take it from him - it's the only way.

During this time, the power in your relationship will be in flux. Neither of you will be sure where the other stands. This uncertainty will be uncomfortable for both of you because it is human nature to order the world. You will have doubts such as, "Am I being too hard on him?" "Was this a good idea?" "Did I ruin our marriage?" These are completely normal thoughts, but you must never share them with your husband. It will have to be your own private burden. Sharing thoughts of uncertainty will only insert doubt in his mind and show weakness. His uncertainty will be twice that of yours, so you must be the guiding hand for him.

Broaching the Subject

You'll definitely want to let him know what's going on. If he doesn't, how can he play along? Remember, you husband wants to be cuckolded. You only need to break the ice. For example:

Has your husband ever mentioned how you'd feel about a *********, swinging, or anything extramarital? This may be a good place to start if he did. First make your husband really hot in a way that still allows you to talk to him, like by giving him a hand job. Once he's near ****** ask him, "Hey honey, remember that time you mentioned having a *********? Do you still feel the same about it?"

Judge his reaction. His eyes may light up or his heart may start beating faster. He'll try to hide his excitement of course.
He'll ask, "Would you really consider it?"
And you can say, "Well I've been thinking about it. It might be fun to make some changes."


If you suspect your husband masturbates often, try to catch him in the act. Then you can give him hell.
"Honey, I've had it with you! This is the last time I catch you ************. It's disrespectful and disgusting. Things are going to be changing around here!"

These are just a few examples of how to broach cuckolding with your husband. Note the range in ways. Also note cuckolding was never mentioned. At this early stage there is no need to be specific. The only thing you need to be concerned about is the main message: "Things are going to be changing." Of all the stories you've read about wives cuckolding their husbands, choose the method you are most comfortable with.

Being Mean

After you've let him know that things will be changing around the house, you have to follow through. Remember, he won't just give you control, you have to take it from him. Basically you're going to have to be mean to him. If you were raised right this will probably not be easy for you. You were taught to treat everyone with the same respect you wish to have. This is one of the hardest parts of cuckolding because you'll be breaking the golden rule, but once you get used to it, it becomes natural.

Start by taking aspects of his life away from him. One of the first things you can do is to take is his identity away. For example, feminize your husband's name; Jack can become Jackie, Dan can become Danielle. Or childize his name; John can become Johnny, Bill can become Billy. You're main objective is equate him with weakness - historically women and children. Actually have a conversation with him about this. Let him know that you will be calling him something new from now on.

Also don't let him call you by name anymore. Only equals can call each other by name. Force him to refer to you as "Mistress" or "Goddess." When you ask him a yes or no question, make him respond with "Yes, Mam" or "No, Mam." This will help condition him as a subordinate.

On the same lines, you can call him nicknames like, "Little One" or "Tiny." And refer to his penis as a "dicklet." This will strike his insecurity with his penis size, and if he never had an insecurity, it will create one.

Other examples of being mean to your husband are to take his free time away by giving him chores, his money and possessions away by demanding he be frugal, and his sex life away by withdrawing sex. Start small, but be firm. You want him to get used to submitting, and you used to dominating. For example, make him make the bed every morning from now on instead of you. Even something as inconsequential as making the bed will have a submissive effect on him and it will be something to build on later. For example, when you feel the time is right you can add to his responsibilities, "Honey, since you're doing such a great job making the bed everyday, I'm going to have you clean the entire bedroom every morning from now on too."

Take your time being mean. It's more important that you are comfortable with the process than the actual process. You are training yourself to be the beautiful and terrifying wife whose husband begs to please you. Be strict with the rules you make. If your husband doesn't take out the trash let him know your displeasure. Punish him with real consequences if he messes up.

Punishment may be many different things depending on your style. You can be passive aggressive by withdrawing sex. You can be very aggressive and spank him. You can force him to do something perverted like eating his own *****. Just make sure you communicate with him at the time of his in-fracture that you are displeased with him, and that there will be consequences.

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Being Nice

The beauty of being mean to your husband isn't in its direct benefits, but in how it redefines being nice. Things that used to be normal for him are now special treats. He used to be able to have sex with you whenever he wanted, but because you've withdrawn sex from him, you've made it a rare event - something to behold. By being constantly mean to you husband, you'll lower his standard of what is considered nice.

Use this concept once you've established a baseline of meanness, which will probably takes few weeks. Once being mean has become the norm you can start. For example, let him know a reward will follow his future good behavior. You can say, "I've decided today that if you're a good boy all week and do all your chores, I'll give you a ******* at the end of the week." A ******* only a few weeks ago was not worth doing an entire week of chores for, but because you're mean now, a *******'s value has greatly increased. Being "nice" like this you give your husband an incentive to follow your rules -- further deepening your control.

It's all about sticks and carrots. Reward him for good behavior, punish him for bad, and most importantly, remind him that he's lessor to you.

Your Pleasure First
Once you've mastered being mean to him, you can progress to a new lesson. Train him to subordinate his pleasure to yours. His new reason for being will be solely to please his mistress. Let him know this. Things like the new car he was planning on buying make off limits. Nights out with his friends, no -- he has to stay in and clean. Fishing? Nope, he's got to do laundry.

Not only will this degrade him, but it will give you more free time. Take advantage of this and enjoy it! Go to the pool and relax, go out with your friends at night, go on dates with other men. You won't have to worry about the kids anymore because your husband is watching them. And because you've forbidden him from buying that big ticket item he's been saving for, go shopping! There's plenty of money now, right? This the time to be a hotwife -- go for it.

If you don't do these things by deciding you'd rather be nice to him, it will be to your determent. It's up to you to fill the void of your husband's powerlessness. If you only force him not to buy the car, but then don't spend the freed money, you're sending him an incomplete message. Spend the car money on yourself, and let him know, "I, your wife, don't care about your pleasure because mine is more important." Make sure you fill the void; you don't want all your hard work wasted.

Changing the definition of sex
This lesson is especially important. Definitely no more ********. The ******* is the epitome of giving him pleasure. Don't even have sexual intercourse with him. Intercourse equates both of your pleasures, not exactly the message you want to send him either. If he insists on sex, have him **** you with your favorite *****.

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Make sure to mention how much bigger it is than his penis and how much you enjoy having a "real ****" in you. If you absolutely must have sex with him a good idea may be to make him wear one or two "long lasting" or numbing condoms. This will greatly reduce his pleasure. The best thing you can turn sex into is him eating you out, period. You may want to squat on his face and force him to eat your *****, or lay on your back and make him beg to eat you. Either way, he should soon learn what you mean when you say, "Let's have sex." For him, at most, let him ********** afterwards and only if he did a good job.

From here you can take things further. A good way to do this is with conditions. A condition is basically a trade. For example, "Okay wimp, I'll let you *** tonight, but you have to *** in your hand and eat it afterwards," or "Alright *****, I'm going to be nice tonight and let you **** me, but afterwords you're going to have to eat your *** from my *****." By using conditions, you can bring him to higher levels of submission voluntarily. This is more than worth the momentary pleasure you trade him.

Once you've gotten your hubby to do a degrading act for the first time with a condition, the subsequent times become much easier. Let's say it had been a month since you let you husband stick his **** in you. Then one night you offered him the chance to **** you as long as you got to **** him afterwards. He was so desperate to feel your soft, warm *****, he jumped at the chance. That night you give him a good ***, then put on your strap-on ***** and stuck it in his *** for the first time. You've now made it much easier to **** him in the *** for a 2nd time by breaking that initial barrier. You probably won't need to bargain with him again, just force him. Using a condition at every major cuckold milestone is recommended. For example, when you bring another man into the relationship. This is a big step for him, so you'll have to coax him along with rewards.

Don't use conditions forever. They are just a tool to use in the beginning stages of taming your husband. After a while you will have amassed so much power, there will be no need for them. You can just make him do whatever you want. Once you've reached this point using a condition will actually make you look weaker.


Sometime around this point you will have reached a milestone in which you can say you've officially conditioned your husband to be your cuckold. Usually it occurs after you've forced your husband to do something so depraved that he has no self respect anymore. It may be the night you take his anal virginity, the night you come home from a bar and make him eat another man's *** from your *****, or the time you force him to suck another man's larger penis. All the hard work you have done training yourself and your husband culminates here. For afterwards the change in your relationship will be so apparent that both of you will never be able to go back. He will be stricken with terrible shame and embarrassment, and you will have finally tasted the ecstasy of pure power.

Also remember that with great power comes responsibility. You are now responsible for another human being. You will have to make many more decisions because he has deferred authority to you, his dominatrix. You have changed his life purpose from the pursuit of happiness to the pursuit of your happiness; you must give him every opportunity to fulfill this new mission and he will be grateful to serve you.

Now relax, you've made it! Enjoy the lifestyle perks that cuckolding has to offer. Live a life of leisure. Have you husband take care of all the mundane things. Make him do all sorts of nasty and perverted things. Sleep with other men and bring them home to play. Whatever you choose to do with your cuckold, enjoy the luxury of having the choice...:)
doctorrs doctorrs
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19 Responses Feb 14, 2011

You are dreaming. MOST husbands will tell you to "**** off". Then they will react by feeling that since they are so disrespected, they have a license to get p**sy on the side. That is, in addition to either you becoming submissive as hell to them or you get divorces.

this is a great article. thanks for sharing!!


how can i become a cuchold


This sounds so interesting. I would love to have my girlfriend do this to me. I always wanted to watch your with another guy.

I've always wanted to be cuckolded but idk how to go about doing it. I'm a young attractive fit white male and i've tried a few things on my own but i need help. Maybe a taste of a little humiliation :) here is my kik: Afghanistan_love

Heaven is here, on this earth and we men can find and experience it in this very life by submitting ourselves to woman superior, and we'll find our heaven under her divine feet...!!!

what kind of a sick website is this...

This excellent advice here, and very useful. Some I have already started with, but was not quite sure how to progress properly to where I want him to be.

So did anyone ever think of cuckolding a wife? I'd love to move in with my elderly lover and make his wife be our live in housekeeper. She'd move into the spare room and would have to act as if she was totally delighted for us to have fallen in love.

To seal the arrangement my man and me will make love while i'm wearing her priceless Dior weddinggown. It doesn't fit the fat cow anymore but it's an absolute perfect fit on me (already tried it on once). She can help me dress.........

dude you have copied it from literotica havent you

yes mam, but I never claimed I wrote it. The fact is the content is true. That is what matters. We have to spread the word that women are superior and you are lucky you are a woman. I hope I did not cause any bad feelings to you the superior sex.

you are very right i really appreciate man like you

Deal ALL,<br />
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I have been very calm after the injections they are giving me. I have to go every week for the needles. They made me see a psychiatrist and two nurses. The nurses are under orders to make me comply with my wife's requests and administer all medications by injections. I have been told to drop my pants, and given in the most humiliating ways, injections into the buttocks. Mostly they give them to me in my upper arms and that hurts a lot. They talk to me about how a wife can do what ever she wants and that jealousy is very bad. I have felt a lot of calm from the injections. I think it is some kind of hormone balancing injections, and mood stabilizers. I have felt a really big difference in my behavior. I seem to not care about where she goes and what she does. I dont ask her whom she talked to in the gym and if guys noticed her arm-hair. Which used to drive me nuts. She has made me into a ***** cat. I still love her a lot but dont seem to care about the little details.<br />
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She likes me like this and when I ask if they injections can stop, she sharply snaps at me and I have no choice. My sister-in-law is the main reason for my treatment. She found the doctor and clinic that caters to anger in men. I am told that if I dont comply they can get a judge to write an order for the injections. I dont want the public humiliation if I am dragged into court. Everyone will watch as I am put to shame. I shall just accept my fate in the dark corners of the clinic with a warm needle in my arm. The nurses dont smile at all when they are treating me, as if I am a criminal, they only smile at my wife. I asked the doctor why my wife does not give me sex and the doctor's reply stunned me "she does not have to have sex with YOU, and you are not well dear, she will do it when you are well". I am shunned by my sister-in-law too, as if I will beg HER for sex. I do ********** but I dont tell my wife.

Dear pla<x>yerazzi, u are correct, it is not not for everyone, even for me I doubt if it is correct. Sex drive in men is much more than women, and that is normal. The turn-on from jealousy is VERY powerful for some men (including me). My wife does go out with her friends and dances with men. I ask her about how she feels when they touch her arms and she says "I dont mind". But for me, that brings intense jealousy, and a sexual high. There are many men like me. She does not have sex with these guys. I fully trust her, now. But for a long time I had issues with her. She did make me see a psychiatrist and she gave me some pills and four injections. I will discuss that later. I feel much calmer now and trust her. She has told me that women cannot and should not report to men on their whereabouts. I need to show her respect at all times. She loves me and is faithful but can go with anyone she wants to clubs, etc.

I agree 100%. I dared to discuss it with her last week during "bedroom talk". I said why dont you go out with a guy and then have sex with him? She gave me a strange look and then said that I would not be able to handle it. I said why not? She said "you are already so jealous of me going to the gym in a sexy outfit, I dont think you could take it if I went out with another man". I did not push her to try it, but wondered how I would really react. She is also having some vaginal problems these days and we dont have sex. So I am all backed up. She is going to see a gynecologist next week and I am all jealous already. She has shaved her vagina already. How humiliating for me because she does not let me shave her nor does she shave for me completely. But for the doctor, sure!!!

I long for that burn of jealously, I can totally relate. I wish my wife could be just downright mean to me and make me "take" her being with another man. SO,SO hot for me.

No my wife did not write it. She did not make me publish it either, I just wrote that part in. She is faithful to me, but dominating. She does believe in women being the superior gender, and likes for example how my sister has controlled her husband. He washes the dishes, vacuums the house, and obeys her. My sister actually slept with another man and her husband had to "take" it. She is very dominating and I used to get turned on by their relationship. However, my wife does not do that level of cheating. Flirting with guys maybe call it talking to them, is what she does well. She told me how one guy called her at home (phone) and told her that he wants to have sex with her. She told him no and that never to talk like that again. She told me the whole thing. This was 3 years ago. Then two weeks ago we went to a party and there he was. My wife was wearing a sleeveless blouse and he came and sat right next to her on a sofa. His arm was touching my wife's arm. I got very jealous but did not show it. I could not stand his arm touching my wife's. She has very sexy arms, I love her slightly hairy arms. He must have enjoyed that all that time, while I was sitting across from them. I did not dare separate the two because my wife wants her "freedom". I play the slave to her and she has told me never to question her. So I had to burn inside as they talked and talked. This is the guy who had asked her for sex and was refused 3 years ago. Anyway, nothing else happened and I did not bring it up.

Your wife is so ready for this lifestyle if she is the one who made you post it. Ask her in the heat of passion if she would ever consider sleeping with someone else and I bet if her mood is right she will say yes. Then off you go into the wild blue yonder that is cuckoldry. Did your wife write this story?

Just as a man should be underneath his Queen. I printed this out and I am going to give it to my wife and hopefully I will eventually be where men were born to be: a slave for his Queen! I am going to stop at the toy shop today and try to get a 2 ended gag d***o for her to ride on tonight. Hopefully I can find one bigger than mine. I am also going to ask her to talk dirty to me as she rides on it while on top of my face. I am going to ask her to say "I am going to steal all your money and leave you high and dry." And hopefully I can get her to deny my o****m. I did get her to say that line while I was pumping her slowly the last time we had sex. I have told her numerous times while having sex that she needs a boyfriend to keep her warm when I work the overnight shifts. She always says that if she had someone else then "that would be it for you." AAAAHHHH what a sweet victory that would be to get her to cuckold me and lock me in long term chastity where I belong. It already turns me on when she goes out and spends money. I am desperately in NEED of this lifestyle. I have already told her she needs to be mean to me and make me serve her. Thank you so much for the story.

The key is that the wife's pleasure is all that matters. Hubby must understand that. Make him earn Goddess points before he is entitled to any pleasure. Spending his money is also important. Good job, Doctorrs.

Someones' wife wrote this. She hopes other women will read this and one day the whole world will be completely controlled by women.

The world should be controlled by Superior Women that feminize their spouses into good wives that clean them after they have been properly serviced by males of their choosing! Life as wife to a Superior female is an honor!