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I Hurt Someone That I Cared About

You Dont Know, Dont Judge!

By: LonelyGurlll
Written on June 6th, 2011
Who said that if u hurt someone its because u dont love them or you dont care?
I'd hurt so many people before, and i dont mind saying this! because it hurt me as well! You might say that if we really care for someone we'd do our best not to see their tears, but no one can know the reasons, and you cant judge!
I mean we all do mistakes, and we all deserve a second chance, a chance to fix things.
Because i once hurt someone for a simple reason that i loved him.
By: LonelyGurlll
Age: 18-21 , Female
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9 responses
  • 1littlerose
    1littlerose

    Yes we all deserve a second chance. We are humans and liable to make mistakes

    Mar 19
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  • afishbrain
    afishbrain

    I really understand how that feels. When you dont mean to hurt someone but he is hurt anyway. I was quite strict as a person and did not give people who hurt me a second chance, but now after knowing how bad it feels not to be given a second chance from someone, I know that in the future I will give people second chance. hope you can forgive yourself..

    Oct 1, 2012
    1 like
  • rubyetuesday
    rubyetuesday

    I get mad and then walk away when I'm hurt. I don't give people a second chance a lot of the time especially when they mean a lot to me. I feel that blame is a major factor in hurtful situations. We hurt someone or they hurt us blame sets in and we don't usually talk it out. Deciding to start talking then let things go makes all the difference. I know this but it is still hard to do.

    Feb 3, 2012
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  • Tryingtomakesenseofit
    Tryingtomakesenseofit

    Yes I agree, most people end up hurting someone they love at some point. Some more than others. Depending on the situation and especially if its one incident its usually by mistake. I hope that you were able to forgive yourself and make ammends with the person.

    Jan 4, 2012
    1 like
  • yolandertomlin
    yolandertomlin

    Hurting people should never be something we should ever do but sometimes it happend .Say u`r sorry and keep moveing .Remeber forgiveness is not for them it`s for you .Keep your head up

    Dec 26, 2011
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    • LonelyGurlll
      LonelyGurlll

      yeah sure not a thing to do always, but sometimes things go beyond our control, its not a crime!
      and thanks for your comment :)

      Dec 27, 2011
      1 like
  • danieldaramola
    danieldaramola

    yeah hurting people is truly inevitable,especially those we love, and that is why we have to learn to forgive and let go of pains of what others has done to us.

    Sep 1, 2011
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  • LonelyGurlll
    LonelyGurlll

    yeah thats true, we all need second chances, because hurting ppl is inevitable..

    Aug 18, 2011
    1 like
  • theangelDean
    theangelDean

    Yes true but if you really love someone you have to forgive them no matter what and hope they do the same because if they don't they never loved you at all to care enough to give a second chance .....were only human not superhero no one is perfect but the great news is people who do forgive and understand one other are perfect for each other because they see each other faults an can look past it.

    Aug 18, 2011
    4 likes