Me and my ex girlfriend went out for three years. We have been broken up for four months. We became friend after the breakup. She would do things like call me up to cuddle, sleep over, give me a peck on the lips goodbye, and say she loves me sometimes. I told her we couldn't be friends and we should go our separate ways, cause she would only call me up when she was bored, or lonely. I also said it wasn't fair that we were doing things that we did when we went out. Anyway she hasn't talked to me since, it's been 5 days, and i feel like we just broke up again. We both still love each other, and i dunno if i made a mistake by telling her we can't be friends. But i was acting like her security blanket, do you think i was wrong by saying we should go our separate ways, will she call me? Please help!
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1 Response Jul 9, 2010

Give her time. I think she will call you again she just needs to take time and realize that she needs to change her way of thinking from girlfriend to JUST A FRIEND status. Very hard doing that I know!! But I think she will soon realize that she misses her best friend and she will start gradually calling again. Be patient. If she doesnt then she didn t need to be in your life after all, you deserve a better friend than that!!