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Feminine And Happy

hello friends, first of all I want to shout I am proud and very happy feeling both blessed an gifted being a crossdesser, I treasur my feminine side and the best times of my life are when I am out presenting as a woman. Those of you whos wifes accept and support the expression of your feminine side are so very lucky, I hope you truly realize just how lucky you are.. In my case my wife totally hates my CDing, to her I am an abomination, except for pantiesI am not alllowed to be dressed at home, so was promptd to adapt and learn how to adapt to being in public as a woman, I have grown to fel like the real me and go about anywhere i wish as a woman. Jean Marie aka David
dly645 dly645 56-60, T 10 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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I would like to think that those of us who have unsupporting wives, lovers or significant lovers feel threatened by us. I think that when you buy yourselves a beautiful piece of lingerie that you purchase at least an equally beautiful piece of lingerie if not better for your Better Half. You have to Always be on top of the Emotional Roller Coaster. And maybe, at times, you will have to shed the feminine attire and make love to them as a man (unless there are lesbian tendencies present). But only you will know that. They always have to know that they are number one and only then will they maybe learn to accept you for who you really are. Sorry. Just my thought for the day and you got picked. Love You All!

I agree with your thoughts, but my wife was brain washed before I came along and hated all sex, and had no interest in anything in sensual attire after we were married.

I am truely sorry to hear that. I wish you only good luck and happiness.

Thank You Huggzz

Jean Marie I can feel your happiness with your feminine side and your crossdressing. I also understand it I think crossdressing is one of the greatest pleasures in life. I am finding more and more opportuninites to dress up in womens clothes and feel feminine. I also wear panties most of the time but get used to them. Its when I have a dress on that I feel wonderfully feminine. Its sad your wife doesn't understand my doesn't either but at least she lets you wear panties thats a little bit of tollerance.

I really no longer consider myself a CD any more , I am more TG now , have been on HRT for 2 years. I am hormonally castrated. Huggzz Jean Marie

Hi Jean Marie, Your fem name is lovely. Sorry to hear your wife is not supportive of your cross dressing.

hi an yes my wife hates it to

At the moment am single live on own and CD in apartment but not outside but feel happier able to express my fem side even if at home.A new partner will have to accept me for who I am.

My motto is.................If you like it, do it.<br />
I have been wearing silk lingerie for almost 40 years, because I like the feeling next to my skin.

I am so sad for you too. I will ask my partner Val to make a comment to encourage you with our hobby. From the replies that you have had to your post you at least have some lovely understanding friends on here. Best wishes<br />
Linda

I am also happy to be a crossdresser, who has atleast partial suppot from my wife. She allows me to share panties with her which I really enjoy as we both wear the same size and therefore can share a panty drawer. We go shopping together for panties and pantyhose, and someimes girdles. She does not wear girdles, but I have back problems and they help a lot. She also suggested that I go ahead and order some all in one body briefers as they may help my back, mind you this was from several hints from me. I ordered them in my own name from Sears and wear one every day now. I have become girdle dependant, and I love it. When we buy pantyhose, she picks out hers and I pick out my own, which are a different size because I am much taller than her, I usully buy suppot hose and tights, which help with circulation in my legs, and the feamle clerk at the store we always shop at never says a word, she just smiles and takes our money. I love shopping there and talking with the clerks and the female customers as I sit in a chair at the end of the dressing rooms. I often get to see women dressed in different outfits and help them decide what looks good and what does not,They seem not to mind me being there and actually value my opinion most of the time. The female clerk and I usually discuss what we like/dislike about different outfits on the other customers. I am occasionally treated to seeing some of the women in various states of undress as they may need help from a clerk doing up a back zipper or something. I have even had a couple of women either buttoning up a blouse or unbuttoning before they go back behind the curtain to try something else on. I have found almost all of them to be friendly and some even tease me about what a good husband I am by being there to help my wife. Little do they know how jealous I am of them , and wish I was in there trying on different underwear, swimsuit and dressed, etc, and modeling them for them. What a thrill that would be. Sex is something that has not happened in a long time, but we seem to carry on anyway as we love each other so much. Stress, medial problems, and business that leaves little time in the day make our sex live non existant, but the drive is still there and my wife tollerates most of my crossdressing, but it does not do anything for her as far as our sex life. Even so, in the past she has surprised me and dressed me up in matching bra and panties and made me her lesbian lover for a night, but that was years ago, sighhhh. maybe someday, but for now I just enjoy dressing in lingerie every day and going outside occasionaly at night and hoping to get caught by the right person, but even that is unlikely, so I have to be careful. But I have a lot of fun trying and fantasizing about the things I hope to happen, I find as I get older that I do not really care what people think, and if I want to wear womens underwear, then I will, and I do and to hell with what anybody else thinks. Be happy and be who you are, even if you have to be in the closet.

I guess bottom line she is no my true friend, Part of tis is due to her up bringing, she was taught all sex was eveil and a woman was not supposed to ever enjoy sex. I am now on female hormone, she does not know.

So sorry for your wife but you need to be you.<br />
My wife supports me because we are best friends, first and foremost.<br />
She hates sex and all that comes with it.<br />
She understood that I was and should be happy with me. Instead of fighting me she accepted me. She loves to help me dress and that way I leave her alone about sex. Win-win situation. I go on dates with guys and she wishes me happy nights.<br />
If your wife is your true friend, how can she deny you happiness you feel inside?<br />
A CD thought<br />
Louise