What Do I Do?

I'm a 19 year old gay girl and I am happily out and everyone knows. I lost a few friends and friends and family become a bit funny but I'm happy it's fine. However I'm with a girl who is so far in the closet I don't think she will ever come out. She always has an excuse, but she has boys who like her. It's got so bad she told people I was her 'boyfriend'. Her mum is an alcoholic and suffered with cancer last year and she is scared if she comes out her mum will drink herself into a hole! I don't know if I'm being selfish but I can't be her dirty little secret anymore. What shall I do?!?!?!?!?!
18-21, F
2 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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I think you should talk to her, tell her how you feel but also understand that there are certain people she cannot tell at this time, and just hope to aim for her telling a few friends and/or family that she feels she can trust, so it doesn't always seem like 'the elephant in the room' for you, my girlfriend was the same; it all ended good.