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How Do Older Men Pick Up Girls?

I am 20, turning 21 in 12 days. I meet older men online. My last sugar daddy was from He was so sweet to me and we fell for each other but his wife found travel receipts with my name so he told me that he has to lay low for a while. When we first started going out in public we didn't hold hands because he was nervous. It didn't take long for him to warm up and hold me while we walked together. He would hold my hand, put his arm around my waist, and kiss me in public. 

I am extremely attracted to older men. I only date older, white men. Why does it seem that they are only online?
Why cant I meet him at a grocery store, while I am shopping at an outdoor mall, at the gas station, walking down the sidewalk to work, or even other departments in the office building where I work? Are they shy and afraid of being rejected? I understand that society would not look positively at an older man with a much younger girl in public... but can they get over this phobia of being judged?

I want for a guy to see me walking down the sidewalk in my brand new BCBG Paris Wedge heels and my sea green Anne Taylor dress with my hair done down and my sparkling polished nails gripping my bronze Steve Madden clutch. I want him to throw a flirtatious smile or wink and approach me. I want him to tell me that he is interested in me. Why can't this happen? Is online my only choice of meeting an older man for a romantic fling?
PrettyLittleKeena PrettyLittleKeena 18-21, F 62 Responses Feb 29, 2012

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Do those websites actually work? I thought they were sure ways to get raped or kidnapped :(

I'm a man who would love to get raped or kidnapped......LOL.....And yes, web sites work...I have been dating a lady on line for almost a year and we are finalizing plans to move in together.

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Hey PLK. I'm a 48 year old looking for something similar. I would love to talk to you and get your perspective on things. Feel free to message me. Look forward to hearing from you. Have a great day!!

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You need to find an unmarried older man......either divorced. or widowed. On-line is the best place. Post photos with lots of cleave and sex appeal. Be mobile and
ready to move......If you do it right....he'll send you a airline ticket and an invitation to move in with him. Be prepared to have lots of sex with him......that's what he wants from you.

Let me know if you want to chat.

you can e-mail me and we can talk

I do not pick up girls and certainly not online, not to judge anyone it's just not my style, I am also not a one night stand guy, that is not to say it may not happen online, I would still like to get to know the person, the brain is the largest sex organ and I prefer to penetrate that before the rest of the body is surrendered to me. Once I sense a mutual connection I go on a relentless charm offensive that rarely fails, when you truly desire someone or something wholeheartedly you will find within you that which you never knew existed, which will allow whatever you desire to manifest!

It will be easy for you to attract older men but you have to go to places where they hang out. Just dress up a little, look sexy but Don't go overboard and look too hot or they will be afraid to approach you. Finally, look at them, let your eyes meet theirs and be sure to smile at the man you want. The rest will happen naturally, in fact this is the way it has been happening for centuries.

I am an older guy interested in younger girls (I'm 34 looking for approx 10 years difference, Give or take a couple of years). If a younger girl was interested in me, I wish she would just say it. I don't take hints as I offen read situations wrong.

I have heard about sugar daddy and I thought "What is that kind of daddy and daughter relationship?" and until now I have the same thought. The men you are looking for is not DADDY, that is LOVER. They have money and you have youth. I guess most of us hide ourselves in the public because of many reasons.

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I feel sad about your situation and understand how you must feel. Happy to discuss further if you wish.

Hi there PrettyLittleKeena,

I'd love to chat more privately

I loved what you wrote. Why not have a look at my profile and see if you would like to chat, privately.

There are some reasons why a young girl loves hanging out with older men. One of them can be from lacking relationship or love from the father. I am also in love with a man who is older than me 20 years old. I met him online too. I wish I was a normal person who was born in a normal family that could lead to be with a young boy as many girls around me but it is impossible cos it was abnormal since I was born. He got married once and I truly love him but he does not love me. It is funny to say so. I thought he loved me and that is why I loved him back but I did not know he acted the same way with many girls. I guess love can't be decided while I love him when he is not rich and have not many things. I am trying to quit this relationship now cos it can't have good results. I am willing to quit my ideal man because of him but he can't quit his ideal wife because of me. He has some standards to judge girls which can't apply for me but he does not know that. Old men have a lot of experiences to make young girls like you and I feel happy but it doesn't mean that they love us. We are just too innocent kids for them. A serious old man will think deeply how the relationship is when one of them will be 60 and the other one is still too young, not only about himself.Another thing I want to share with you is about the old man you mentioned above. Be careful with men who got married. They just need strange feelings sometimes. They will not divorce their wife who go with them such a long way to get married with a young girl easily. I think you would also have the same decision if you were them.I don't want to think much but we have to be wise if we are with a wise person.

I think u like loose skinned guys

what you say is somthing fore us the older men to think about your right why not love has no age tag on it both fore men and wimmen

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O how I wish you lived in south africa....if I knew how I would tell you my story but I can't seem to find out how to post!!!!

You seem gorgeous.
As for me, it a question of building total trust. Also, being married, if friends saw us and reported back to my wife, that could be disastrous.
Have a look at my profile, I should be very interested in your views.
Peter xx

great story

You have to flirt with them, probably more openly than you are, and they'll get the hint.

Really the best way to meet older men outdoors is to go to places like malls or maybe a walking downtown if you live near one. The key thing is to do it by yourself. If your with a little group, guys your own age would be challenged and old guys would never try.

The last time I met a much younger (24ish to my 56) girl was on a Sunday at the bar of a restaurant, after the lunch rush when she came in alone. I talked to her long enough to form the suspicious she was hot for the bar tender, but I'll go back there in a Sunday or two to be sure. Good luck.

I have been trying to find someone like you for years. I do from time to time approach youg girls that seem that the may be interested but am always rejected.
You need to be a bit foreward & let us know your interested.
I would love to be yyour friend on here at least.

Smile at us, let us know that you are approachable, that will work for you like a charm