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I need help....Im attracted to older men.

classycaz classycaz 26-30, F 41 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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Nothing wrong with that

I'm here, just add me!

Why would you assume you need help? Does it bother you that you're attracted to older men? How much older? Us old fellers are more stable than a young guy, overall. We know (mostly) what we want, and we've learned a LOT about compromise.

I'm an older guy, and I'd love to chat/get acquainted. What sort of "help" are you talking about? Let's add each other, okay? thanks

Darn that Richard Gere! I knew he was trouble with all his distinguished lookin grey hair and rugged good looks... Lol

Well I can help, What do you like about older men that makes you helpless?

The only help you need is getting in touch with an older man who interests you.

Hi caz im a 50 yr ld man keeping fit looking smart and my marrage ended 15 years ago. since then my confidence and sexual history is 2nd to not and my last 3 girlfriends where 26, 22 and 25 all very attractive and they all say sex with there age is selfish boring and no respect and they have no problem with my age iv a daughter 26, so im aware of peoples opinions, u no what enjoy yourself babe life short live your life not anyone elses and im gunna go with girls of any legal age to a poin for as lng as I can

This is completely natural. don't let society make you feel wrong about what your attracted to. everyone is different and we all have our own desires

Add me please.

id love to help....add/contact me...x

Sorry to hear of your situation, I was put in touch with a personal and relationship confident, whom I greatly benifited from ,maybe you will too :

dont ever say you need help for what you prefer love im 45 soon 46 im in nyc and im very very much looking for a tender sweet and mature young lady around 18-24 to share my heart,love,intimicy and incredible hot passionate LOVE MAKING SESESIONS WITH ,and be everything to her including a DADDY figure, but as of now no luck yet but ill never loose hope in finding her.......................................................................

Help me I'm old

OK, so you are attracted to older men. So what is the problem? Please explain.

what help you need honey. talk to me.

And what kind of help do you need?

I would love to help in anyway possible

what help do u need get back to me

Girl’s older men will love you, teach you and respect you always. Message me add

Hey caz I'd sure like to help you as I'm an older man.Please add me.

add me plz

what kinda help do u need?

I can help. I'm an older man.

Hi Classy,<br />
I'm an older guy.<br />
Wanna try me on for size?

Hey there Caz. What upsets you most about your desire for older men? What have you done about this? I see that you started this about 2 years ago. Have you explored and experimented? Do you have any older men that you consider friends or mentors? There are lots of ways to find yourself with older men you enjoy. Give yourself permission to enjoy what you want to enjoy. Others should have little or no influence here, as they are not inside your skin. You are mature enough to figure out what you want and go for it for your reasons.

I'm 54, how about you and I hook up.

what kinda help do u need?

I'm more attractive to younger girls now that ever before. So I'm sure other men are too. If given a chance don't be afraid to let someone know you are interested. Personally I like the refreshing attitude a younger girl possess. I like the fun, I like the fact they like being in the moment and enjoy doing things.

I don't think that is bad. I'm sure there are plenty of us older gents who would be interested.

i dont think you need help,just follow your heart

I would be happy to help. I am an older man (nearly 50), but still have a powerful sex drive. I am intelligent enough to carry on a meaningful conversation as well, and I have very broad interests (no pun intended). You should try dating an older man, you may just find that he will make you quite happy.

Hi - I think you have it all figured out - no need for help. Now go get what you want .... just be careful of your hearts! <br />
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Old men can be broken too!

Why do you need help?

im a guy 39 old, ...when i was young (22-28) more woman , more old than me was attracted by me, now are young girls , i dont know why? can depend of a look , or body,life experience, or together...

how could you tell if the young girls were attracted by you? Just curious

Thank's again for all your posted comment's. Its grea to get the advice an that little bit of support.<br />
Knowing other's are/have experienced the same incounter's as me really help's the suitation.

Thank's for all yor comments. . .

I have a friend about your age who has just seperated from her slightly younger husband, he is a complete ******... so age really has no bearing on happiness

Your request for help is heard. You have essentially two choices. <br />
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One is to accept and allow yourself the freedom to experience it. <br />
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The second choice is to go to counseling, get involved with some schmuck your own age to distract you from what you really want, and become an alcoholic or drug addict or develop some other dependency to avoid your true feelings.... <br />
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Do you need help to get an older man or stop the attraction? There really wouldn't be too much problem with the first option...

Is that so bad? I mean, I'm not an older man, but I find some older women attractive and don't think I need help for it.