Lucky Lucky Lucky

I use to wonder why, I didn't understand why such a conservative person as myself has had the desire to wear women's clothes all my life.

I use to think of myself as a freak but why? I'm a good person. I love life and family and Crossdressing.

I have come to terms with myself and this is what I know now.

I have not compromised who I am, I have only en lighted myself. I have not compromised my sexuality, I have only excited it. I have not compromised my relation with my wife, I have only made it stronger. I have not compromised my values, I have only increased them. I have not compromised the man within me, I have only give him more than one view at life.

I never complain about my wife having too many shoes anymore. I understand her more and she loves the new girl in our lives.

I have always loved to cross dress and I may have never understood it all my life but I can say with all honesty that I am lucky to have this desire and understanding that I was blessed with.

If anyone invents a magic pill that will take the cross dressing desire away from me,,, I'll move to the other side of the planet just to get away from it.

LisaMichaels LisaMichaels
41-45, M
20 Responses Mar 25, 2009

We are who we are. That magic (Or if it were to ever come true it would be called "Tragic" pill) won't ever become a reality. Like so many Sis' have said here, NO WAY would I ever do a pill that would take the only happy part of my life away from me.<br />
Wonderful article Lisa, thank you for sharing.<br />
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Cheryl Anne Swanson.

It's wonderful to read such a statement, I envy you as i'm not always so sure about my crossdressing....I'm happy for you that you found stability! go gurl!<br />

I would love to have a girl in my life to share my femininity with You go girl and enjoy yourself

In Europe we have the idea that such a pill is added to the water supply in the southern U.S.<br />
Any of y┬┤all Southern Belles? LOL<br />
Josie x

Hi, Lisa!...You are missed on E.P.<br />
Your beauty precedes you!....It is OUR life that we else can live it!<br />
If we can't Cross Dress, What's the use of living!<br />
Miss you,Shauna...

Yes you are so right on the money, I have had nothing but fun with my dressing.

Absolutely right! I know can be very hard to find a woman who accept the crossdressing, but i realize i can't live without crossdressing...

yes you are correct.I too find out my self in<br />
females boutique.I feel that intense passion.<br />
my wife also encourage me. She take me to<br />
beautician every week.I really enjoyb sex too<br />

Hi Lisa,,At least you wrote a story,,To me that's compelling enough without giving up privacy...

very well said i agree 100 %... and i also think the queen of hearts should be a joker instead...

Of course I hid my face on my avatar. Some people would never understand that I crossdress and because of non understanding they would be hurt or offended. So I blurred my face. I think it's better than a avatar of a playing card.

If you are SO lucky why did you feel compelled to obliterate your face on the photo?

Hey Lisa, <br />
<br />
This was one of the VERY BEST, and most truthful and understanding posts on EP !<br />
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I consider my CDism the gift of my life! Life would be so simple, tedious and boring without it I just could not imagine being happy without it. I don't even understand how some people can live such empty uninspired lives without it. <br />
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And you are so right. All it does is add to who you are. Best of all, it does give you a special sensitivity to women and makes you closer to them. One of the greatest myths and fears is that women disapprove of males crossdressing. Not only do they usually enjoy it; those who have been experienced with it tend to look for that quality in other men. <br />
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As far as the magic pill, remember the old joke? What can't they find a cure for crossdressing? Answer: because none of us WANT to be cured!<br />
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I hate to sound too trite, or too goodie-two-shoes, but I do believe being a CD is the luckiest thing in my life. It has never, ultimately, brought me anything but happiness. <br />
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Thanks again for the wonderful and so truthful post. <br />
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Lucky me!

I can relate to that story. Maybe I will stop looking for a magic pill. very inspiring!

I agree 100% about that pill! If anyone invents it, we girls will have to buy the patent and make sure it never sees the light of day!

I wouldnt take it either I love who I am and what I do(Marcy)


Thank my lucky stars every day, no pill for me, it is way too much fun getting a chance to enjoy the feminine things in life. I would never want it any other way...well other than being born with the correct plumbing so I could grow up embracing my feminine soul from the very beginning.

Thank you Lisa, I could not have put that better myself.

well said! We are lucky indeed.