Tremendous Hurt And Anguish Over Breakup. Blindsided

I loved a guy for over a year and a half. He said he loved me over and over, we shared our life together, knew eachother's families. Then right after New Year's, he broke up over the phone with me. (Cowardly, I know) It came out of nowhere. He said he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. I had therapy after the breakup of my marriage a few years ago, so I go over in my head what my counselor would have said to me. " You survived before you knew him, you will survive after." Also, the best breakup book in the world is called, "Its Called A Breakup Because It's Broken." It talks about how you have to go at least 60 days of absolutely NO CONTACT!! No e mails, no phone, no texting, no letters. Nothing. I feel as though someone has died. Thank God for a place like this to share feelings. I won't be dating again for a while. I really need a break and re evaluate my life. I could write about this forever. Thanks for reading. :-)
Tootsiepops Tootsiepops
41-45, F
2 Responses Jan 18, 2013

<p>Thank you so much! Little by little the horrible feeling I have in the pit of my stomach is slowly dissipating. I still wake up ( when I do sleep that is..) thinking this is a horrible dream. I want to believe this has all been for the good, and that there is a reason for everything. We shall see. ((HUGS)) back to you. :-)</P>

Ugh....I know that horrible feeling all too well. And the sleepless nights. Hang in there. You are far stronger than I am. All the very best to you my dear (((HUGS)))

I'm so sorry for your pain, but you sound pretty strong. I hope your heart heals a little more with each passing day (hug)