Do you ever get tired of stress and drama? I have these friends that seem to live for this garbage...in all honesty I used to. My life used to be nothing but problems and getting to involved in things ya know. Now I don't want that life anymore but I can't seem to get out of it. I want to relax...I've found a new way of thinking...even a new way of living. I'm happier this way but my friends seem determined to pull me back in to this life of problems. It's so stressful and so draining. They make a big deal out of things that aren't that big of a deal...and there's always gossip and stress and problems. It's like a bad soap opera. I love my friends...they are good people...I want to be there for them but I don't have it in me anymore to live like this ya know. I just want to be happy...I just want to live. I really don't think life should have to be so complicated.
pepsi21addict pepsi21addict
22-25, F
2 Responses Mar 27, 2007

Your friends seem to go through difficulties that you don't understand. You don't really have to make their problems yours. It seems to me that they just need ears to listen to their issues. And since you are their friend, they share it to you. They're not asking you to solve their problems, right? They just shared those so you can understand them better. Also, in my personal view, I think you are the one who take things less seriously, so why not drag them to fun stuffs for them to unload and enjoy life like what you want to happen. That's what friends are for. :)

I have friends like that too. Its use to make me feel like my life was boring because they always had something crazy going on. But now I feel relieved. Even though you love your friends its always good to add new people to the mix. That is how I was able to get away from the cycle. Having different personalities in your life will help balance the dramatic with the mellow.