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HOW to Make Your Partner Understand What They Are Doing Is Wrong

MY SPOUSE FEELS REALLY COMFORTABLE WITH MY PARENTS, AND MAKES FUN AND JOKES ABOUT THINGS THAT MY  MY FATHER WHO IS OLD, LEAGLLY BLIND, PRE ALZHEIMER, AND CAN'T HEAR VERY WELL.  SINCE MY FATHER IS TICKLISH MY SPOUSE TICKLES HIM IN FRONT OF PEOPLE (THIS IS FUNNY FOR MY SPOUSE) AND THAT REALLY MAKES ME UPSET.  I SCREAMED AT HIM TONIGHT, IT WAS NOT MY FIRST TIME.  MY SPOUSE GOT REALLY UPSET AND IS NOT TALKING TO ME OR MY PARENTS.  AM I WRONG?

UPSETT UPSETT 46-50 5 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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No you are not wrong, your spouse is truly an *******!!!

fuc* that. Hes your husband, you should have mutual respect amongst mutual other things. Say that to him. Its YOUR father and you dont appreciate YOUR father being taken the **** out of. I might bite my tongue with some of the things my gf does but if she crosses the line ( the line being crossed in your situation), i would let her have it. If your husband doesnt understand that then he is seriously childish.

Holy cows, seriously? Is this real? How do your parents feel about your spouse doing this?

Tell him how you feel. that it is not something good and respectful. tell him he should respect your dad knowing about his illness. tell him nicely and he will understand. Ask Jesus Christ to change him so that he no longer does that. God bless you...

no your not wrong he is being disrespectful to your dad but maybe he does 'nt realise this when you both cool down talk to him about it, tell him how it makes you feel but do it without making it sound like an attack or he will get angry again good luck.

I think he might have done this to make things easeier for himself . And did not understand what he did to you.