HOW Chicatrini Got Her Groove Back

STELLA ISNT THE ONLY ONE WHO GOT HER GROOVE BACK. I DID TOO. BUT MY STORY ENDS IN HAPPINESS. WHAT DEFINES AN APPROPRIATE RELATIONSHIP? SOCIETY SETS STANDARDS AND GUIDELINES FOR THE KIND OF RELATIONSHIPS WE SHOULD HAVE. BUT IF WE ALWAYS FOLLOW THE RULES OF OUR SOCIETY WE MAY NEVER BEEN HAPPY. WHY YOU ASK? WELL SOMETIMES THE PEOPLE IN SOCIETY WHO SET OUR STANDARDS ARE SELF OPINIONATED, BIGOTTED, FRUMPY INDIVIDUALS WHO PROBABLY HAVE NEVER HAD AN OUT OF THIS WORLD ******. WHEN A MAN DATES OR EVEN MARRIES A WOMAN TWO OR THREE TIMES HIS JUNIOR, ITS CONSIDERED NORMAL. THAT MAN IS LABELLED AS BEING LUCKY. BUT LET A WOMAN EVEN CONSIDER GOING OUT WITH A GUY FIVE YEARS YOUNGER THAN HER- SHE IS A CRADLE ROBBER, A **** AND OTHER DISPARAGING NAMES. THANK GOD THOUGH WOMEN ARE NO LONGER STAYING IN UNHAPPY RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE THE MAN IS THE RIGHT AGE, THE RIGHT HEIGHT, HAS THE RIGHT JOB, THE RIGHT COLOUR OR COMES FROM THE RIGHT FAMILY BACKGROUND. AGE IS IMPORTANT BUT AGE DOESNT DEFINE HAPPINESS. SO I TRIED IT SOCIETY"S WAY. I MARRIED A GUY THE RIGHT AGE AND HE WAS MIXED WHICH GUARANTEED THAT I WONT MAKE LATE FOR SCHOOL KIDS. LOL. SOCIETY IS SO FULL OF **** SOMETIMES. IT DIDNT WORK OUT. IT WAS NOT TOO LONG AFTER THAT I REALISED I MADE A HUGE MISTAKE AND IM BETTING SO DID HE. THEN I MET A GUY TWELVE YEARS MY JUNIOR. YES TWELVE. AND DEMI MOORE ISNT THE ONLY ONE WHO STRUCK NOT GOLD BUT DIAMOND. WEVE BEEN TOGETHER  NINE YEARS NOW AND MARRIED THREE YEARS. HE IS A WONDERFUL STEPFATHER, A TERRIFIC FATHER AND AN INCREDIBLE ADOPTIVE FATHER. WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT HE IS JUST A GREAT DAD. WHICH GUY YOU KNOW READILY ACCEPTS ANOTHER MAN"S KIDS AS HIS OWN, HAS HIS OWN KIDS WITH ME AND THEN ADOPTS ANOTHER MAN"S BABY,GIVES HIM HIS NAME JUST BECAUSE HE IS ASKED TO. AND HE IS ONLY 26. YES 26 WITH SIX KIDS AND A WIFE. NO HE IS NOT STUPID.HE IS  A BLESSING. HE IS RESPONSIBLE, KIND , LOVING, GORGEOUS, HUMANE, ADORABLE, INTELLIGENT AND HE IS MINE.HE HAS HIS GUY DAYS WHEN HE HANGS WITH HIS FRIENDS AND HE MAKES QUALITY TIME FOR ME AND THE KIDS. HE SHOULDERS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF HIS  FAMILY LIKE ATLAS. SO I GOT MY GROOVE BACK AND SO CAN YOU.
CHICATRINI CHICATRINI
36-40, F
Mar 11, 2007