I just joined and have kept it secret and plan to for as long as I'm here. However, I don't feel completely free to share everything either. I wish I did.
I know what you mean. I wanted to post under anonymous, but I couldn't figure out how to do it. I have another online persona in a teacher forum and I use a fake name and never say what location I live at. It has been sort of a struggle to protect my identity. I'm sure you are safe and I'm also sure your name is not Harvey. Perhaps this place is the therapy you need. How about I don't judge you and you don't judge me?