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With Second Editor

I am an intern at the small local newspaper (will not share the name for security reasons!). So the second in charge editor of the newspaper is a 35 year old good looking woman. I am 22 years old and straight (i think), so 3 days ago when we were discussing a point, she leaned over and kissed me on the cheek!!!!!!!!!! i blushed because she is hot......and we kissed for about 30 minutes....time flew....it was different and she was more experienced.... I have yet to tell my boyfriend........please advice me what to do? Plus i've never kissed anyone besides men.....!! but it was a good experience with her

 

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Isis2008 Isis2008 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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OH I REMEMBER MY FIRST SAME SEX KISS..AND WILL FOR EVER.. IT DID SET THE REST OF MY LIFE OFF IN A WILD DIRECTION,,,, IT REALLY DOESN'T MATTER WHO KISSED YOU ONLY IF YOU BOTH ENJOYED IT, AS FAR AS BEING BI CURIOUS YOU DEFANTLY ARE... IT DOESN'T MAKE YOU GAY JUST BI.... I HAVE BEEN SINCE I WA 14 I MADE IT A POINT TO ONLY TELL MY FRIENS AS MY FAMILY IS VERY CONSERTATIVE CHRISTIANS AND BESIDES DO WE GO AND TELL EVERYONE WE ARE STRAIGHT ..NO . MY WIFE KNEW I WAS BI WITHIN 3 HOURS OF OUR FIRST DATE SHE THEN TOLD ME SHE WAS TO AND HAD NEER TOLD ANYONE.... ONE OF THE ADVANTAGES OF FRIENDS KNOWING IS YOU REALLY KNOW WHO IS A TRUE FRIEND AND WHO ISN'T. I HAVE HAD GUYS THAT ARE REAL MACHO COUME UP TO ME AND START CRYING WHILE TELLING ME THAT THEY THINK THEY ARE GAY! ... SOME JUST WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH ME SOME JUST WANTED TO LET IT OUT AFTER MANY YEARS... WHAT I DON'T LIKE IS THE GAY THING TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY HAVE TO TELL US WE NEED TO TELL ALL OUR FRIEND..THAT IS LIKE TELLING YOU YOU LIKE TO PUT A STRAP ON ON UNDER YOUR PANTIES AND WALKING AROUND SO YOU CAN FEEL WHAT IT IS LIKE TO FEEL LIKE A MAN, THAT IS A BUNCH OF RUBBISH .... G.

Hi Isis, thanks for sharing your story, I think you got enough advice already, have fun and a great day : )

The original story sounded very tender and sweet. It's nice that you two got to enjoy each others kisses.



When it comes to discussing this private matter with your boyfriend, remember that he does not OWN you and you are a separate individual. You deserve your own life and it can be as private as you like it.

i here ya on the sexless marriage...ima member... :(

i think alot of good comments and take it from me, i think my wife is bi and wont do anything about it much less lie to me that she isent. u hav more to learn about your interest, feelings, the last thing u want is to hurt him. most guys love the idea untilout women. the start getting left out in the cold. my wife doesnt love me like i need and spends time thinking about other women. u have to figure that out before u tell him. my thoughts good luck. i agree with the boss thing, find another...thats a fire about to happen and someone will get burned. as pretty as you are u will find another.

CaraJ has hit it spot on. Beware the conservative christian view.

DO NOT go thru life denying your sexuality. If its what you want/gets you horny, you gotta indulge, or, you could end up in the sexless marriage group here, all bitter. Your partner MUST BE your PARTNER. If you CANNOT share these kind of feelings, or he cant handle them, get a bf that can.

ancientcelt: my b.f knows that i am bi curious....and that i've only ever kissed her...so he's ok with it...because he loves me and whatever i like he likes it too ;)



and yeah she has been promoted and she works in another city now...she is 34, black hair, greyish green eyes and wears skimpy clothes and looks about 25 years old!!!

after that .....we kissed in a after work party



she held me against the wall and kissed me on cheeks...lips....neck..back of neck...boobs...n my waist too...



but no below the belt ...because i am not yet comfortable for that !!!!

Seekeroftruth: "Could your job be at risk if you refuse? I see a possibility of all sorts of rough entanglements if this continues with your boss."



no we are barely friends actually. and this happened a while back and still she did no such sort of "power play" thing...ever...or even mention it to me

I agree in part with coyotegray. Your boss is the one in power and it is a power play. What's next? The two of you have drinks discussing a story and things happen and next you get invited to the house for her hubby? Could your job be at risk if you refuse? I see a possibility of all sorts of rough entanglements if this continues with your boss.

If this was me in that situation, I would not be rushing to tell the bf. It may turn out to be a one time experience and telling the bf now, could ruin what may be a long and beautiful relationship. Wait and see.... do some sole searching and determine if this is something that you want to continue doing. If so, then telling him is the right thing to do as hiding it will probably tear things apart in the future and end up hurting more.

Look before you leap! :)

JackGrey,

the problem is that all my friends are not that open minded about it but i will try sharing it with friends......but i am nervous...and like coyote suggested revealing to my bf isnt simple either, he's devoted and you the "territory" kinda guy who is quick to suspect



i didnt know at that time such an exciting thing could turn this way........... :( :(:(:(:(

coyotegray: "He's going to want to know what it "means" to you, and whether you'll do it again - with anyone."



yes i havent even thought about that one!

gosh

i am scared now......

i agree its not a very good situation for me...but i am not promising anything either because it felt good, so i cannot say anything about future o.O

Good, sensible advice Coyote. Isis, the consequences of her actions will not necessarily affect your boss's job, but they could certainly cause problems for you. If you are interested in exploring these feelings further, first you should be upfront with your boyfriend, and then you should try to find someone with whom you can be comfortable, perhaps a good friend who is open to sharing the experience. But be careful.

I think your right i SHOULD tell him...its not fair on him.

He's somehow from a small town with somehow conservative Christian views...but i love him because he's devoted to me...you'r right I should tell him



thanxx 4 ur input much appreciated...i hope he's as open minded as you =)

yes i think i wont tell my bf about it.

plus the editor is hot as hell and is married!!! and i think i liked it very much.....and no she didnt force herself on me at all...only a kiss on the cheek.

and then we kissed...i loved it actually



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