I Know My Bf Is Trying To Destroy Me

I HAVE BEEN FRIENDS WITH THIS WOMAN FOR 20 YEARS, OUR FRIENDSHIP HAS BEEN ONE DRAMA AFTER ANOTHER. SHE GOES AROUND TELLING PEOPLE I KNOW AND PEOPLE I DON'T KNOW LIES ABOUT ME CONSTANTLY! SHE SAYS HORRIBLE THINGS ABOUT MY KIDS AND TELLS LIES ABOUT THEM ALSO, THEY ARE ONLY 13 AND 7, WHY WOULD ANYONE DO THAT? BEFORE I EVEN MEET ONE OF HER NEW BOYFRIENDS OR HUSBANDS, 5 AND COUNTING, THEY HATE ME AND I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHY?, SHE HAD ME COMMITED TO A PSYCHIATRIC  HOSPITAL AND A FEW YEARS LATER I ENDED UP WORKING IN THE COURT HOUSE IN OUR TOWN AND CAME ACROSS (MY!) MENTAL HEALTH FILE, SO I READ IT AND AGAIN LIES!!!! AND HER NAME WAS ALL OVER IT!,WELL, I CONFRONTED HER AND SHE WENT TO MY BOSS AND TOLD HER ABOUT THE FILE, I GOT FIRED BECAUSE ACCORDING TO THE INFO IN THE FILE THEY DIDN'T FEEL SAFE WITH ME WORKING THERE!!!! WHAT???? SHE TRIED TO SLEEP WITH MY HUSBAND,OF COURSE HE DIDN'T, SHE STEALS CLOTHES, SHOES , BELTS , ECT...... MANIPULATES ME INTO GIVING HER MONEY OR LENDING HER MONEY AND THEN SHE DOESN'T PAY IT BACK. SHE BEAT HERSELF ON THE LEGS WITH A BELT AFTER SHE WAS IN A FIGHT WITH HER BOYFRIEND AND TOLD EVERYBODY HE THREW A TV AT HER, BUT... A MUTUAL FRIEND WALKED IN ON HER DOING IT!!!!!I INVITED HER TO GO TO A BIBLE STUDY GROUP WITH ME AND SHE WENT WITHOUT ME , THE NEXT WEEK SHE CAME AND WE WENT AND SHE DROVE. SHE LEFT WITHOUT ME(I DON'T DRIVE AND DON'T HAVE A CAR).THEN SHE STARTED SPREADING NASTY GOSSIP ABOUT ME ON UM,LETS SAY AN ELECTRONIC VEHICALL FOR SOCIALIZING BUT SPECIFICALLY (NAMED ME!!!!) UHGGGGG,HOW DO I STOP THIS MADNESS??? I HAVE MOVED, CHANGED MY PHONE NUMBER, I EVEN OBTAINED A NO TRESPASSING ORDER, I LET HER TALK ME INTO DROPPING IT, STUPID ME. I KNOW THAT ITS MY OWN FAULT BECAUSE I CONTINUE TO PUT UP WITH THIS SITUATION, I REALLY WANT TO BE A GOOD FRIEND TO HER,THOUGH I KNOW SHE JUST WANTS TO SEE ME SUFFER. WHY DOES SHE DO THIS STUFF?THIS IS ONLY THE TIP OF THE ICE BURG. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DID TO HER TO MAKE HER HATE ME SO MUCH,I REALLY DO TRY TO BE A GOOD FRIEND FOR HER, I THINK SHE IS A SOCHIOPATH AND I KNOW SHE IS DANGEROUS. THE SCARY THING IS THAT I AM NOT THE ONLY PERSON SHE DOES THESE THINGS TO, MAYBE THAT IS  WHY I FORGIVE HER ALL THE TIME, IT SOMETIMES SEEMS MORE RANDOM THAN PERSONAL,EITHER WAY, SHE IS SCARY, AND DANGEROUS. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME USEFULL INSIGHT AND/OR ADVICE, I AM WORRIED NOW ABOUT WHAT WILL HAPPEN NOW, BECAUSE SHE IS ON ONE OF HER RAMPAGES, I HONESTLY AM SCARED. IS SHE GOING TO POISON MY ANIMALS,TELL MY DOCTOR I AM USING DRUS,NO I AM NOT, CLEAN DRUG SCREEN OF COURSE, I DONT USE DRUGS, SMOKE OR DRINK,SHE ACTUALLY DID THAT,LAST YEAR! WHO KNOWS WHAT SHE WILL DO.ANYWAY I WILL RAP THIS UP, IF ANYONE HAS A SIMULAR EXP. PLEASE SHARE IT~ THANKS YOU GUYS ARE GREAT FOR LISTENING,I FEEL BETTER JUST TELLING SOMEBODY!

chizk132exp chizk132exp
31-35, F
1 Response Feb 14, 2010

i agree with Kitty, definetly restraining order and don't put up with her pathetic crap!