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Overly Self Conscious About Everything I Wear

this group is perfect for me. i know my boobs are too big for society because i absolutely cannot go out in public without having every man i walk by stare at my breasts. my other girlfriends with big (not gigantic like mine) breasts say that they notice men sneak a peak or two every now and then. its not even worth looking guys i pass in the eye anymore because they are always staring at my breasts. no matter if i wear sports bras or overly tight tank tops underneath my clothes, my breasts always bounce when i walk. i have one top that i feel confident walking to the grocery store in because i know it supports me. it is so hard shopping for clothing and walking down the street confidently because my breasts are just too big for society. anybody else out there feel the same way, would love to chat and vent ugh
2big4cum4rt 2big4cum4rt 22-25, F 31 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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Is there such a thing as too big?

Ha! The fact that your breasts are so big should be a confidence builder.

i love boob. i am a *** and *** man enjoy the attention because u have something alot of women don't have

Your breasts are NOT to big for society. It is just that society has been conditioned by the media & fashion trade ! At least you don`t have to suffer mutilation to make them bigger like many young ladies today. Many of them are disappointed that the surgeon refuses to make them as big as they want.

A friend of mine was told she could not enter a club because her breasts were too large. They thought it was not appropriate for the club or something strange. It was very rude.

Big breasts are beautiful and there are probably many women who would love to have some that size. How noticeable they are can depend a lot on a woman's size. My wife has always had big breasts. She has never been fitted for a bra but would estimate her size to be about 56DD. While that may sound huge to some they really don't stand out a whole lot since she has about a 52" waist and is big all over. While she considers herself to be blessed in some respects the size of her breasts have made her uncomfortable at times. Being obese though can make big breasts less noticable. If one's breasts are of a size where they are making you overly self conscious or draw too much unwanted attention there may be surgical options available.

I think it's something primal with a woman with large breasts, but remember you are a thing of beauty, no matter how big your beasts are. Be proud of them.

There is an over-fascination in our society with breasts. Women want large ones and men ogle them because they want a women with large ones too. The fact is that they are just breasts. We all have them. They come in all shapes and sizes. People just need to get a grip and put them in context.

Having said that. I have to admit that I tend to date women with very large breasts, but I know why. I like the attention that they attract.

I think that you should be proud of what you have and take the attention as a compliment. People are looking at you in admiration. Use the attention to build confidence and not the other way around.

Show us the real thing then, your pic is not too big for society. No joke.

Be proud and happy about your big boobs. Your beauty has drawn many fans every day, every where you go. Your presence makes every mans day. Keep smiling.

I hate it when some unspoken "rule" says that breasts are too big to be out in public. These prudish louts don't deserve any attention. I admire large female breasts, but I hope I can be a gentleman and keep from staring!

I know how you feel...I am a very curvy latina and work in the corporate world...its a very difficult environment...would love to chat sometime...

In Fairness, If Your Right ArmWere That Much Bigger And Sexier Than Other Women, If State At Your Right Arm

why is it that american society suppresses sexuality, eh.. no other country has the "taboo's" that we have.. the body is a natural convess of art, each of us different and beautiful in our own way.. and yet taught as males not to look, women taught to look with distain those who are not the "norm" that "they" (whomever they **** they are ) dictate what society is and isn't. should or should not be..
sight unseen, you are beautiful as are the others that society says does not fit the norm..

Boobs are never too big!! Love to see more of them! Please add me as a friend :)

Sorry. Did u say something? LOL

You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed about. The important thing is that you feel comfortable with who you are both as a human being and especially as a woman.

you have nothing to be ashamed of. walk with your head high knowing your beautiful and that you have your pick of anyone you want!!


what dont like attention.They stare at you because you are beautiful. You dont like it?

Hello. Yes unfortunatly us men are like kids in a candy store when we see a sexy pair of breasts. Its like we have no control of our eyes. Its sad but true. The more confidate you are the sexier you are. I personally like to look a sexy woman in the eyes. Big **** or not. Just go with it and have fun. Your sexy!!!

My Dear, my favorite belief is, "If you have no control over something, do not worry about it". Men, genetically, will always be attracted to beautiful, large breasts. Large breasts have always been a sign of fertility. The truth be known, most women are envious of women with breasts larger than theirs. The more time you spend reading stories on EP, the more women you will find who have great pride with their larger breasts. Ironically, you have tremendous power having the breasts that you have been blessed with. Think about changing your self consciousness with confidence. People are not staring at you, they are gazing at you with envy and admiration. Yes, men will always be PIGS. So what.
Hang in there, we're all in this together. ; )

i love all type of breasts, of course i look at them when i first look at a women but when i talk to them i look them in the eyes all women deserve respect!!!

oh my too big no way, breast should be proud of. natural breast like urs are beautiful much like a natural round ***, if u grow them be proud. im sry we look but be happy its because ur beautiful

walk with your chest sticking out and your head held up high, if you got it you cant help how voluptuous you look, just gifted in your own way


If I have a suggestion you should try to distinguish between disrespectful attention and otherwise. I agree that it's not right for men to ogle at you in the same way that it's not right for someone to look at someone with a physical disability in a way that makes that person aware why they are staring. But I do think there's some silver lining.

First, what initially makes a man look is knee-jerk attraction. I know, because large breasts catch my eye. Although you're the target of the glance, it's difficult for men to go through their day completely oblivious to an attractive woman... it's simply not physiologically possible. But I think it's important to see what comes next. Guys who stare in an obvious manner deserve your contempt, even more so if they do anything to make it more obvious.

But men that correct their initial glance and either divert their eyes elsewhere respectfully or engage you in an respectful manner deserve to be given a pass. There are probably a lot of men out there that would like to speak with you and are capable of considering you for the worthwhile and beautiful woman that you probably are and while they weren't able to not notice your bust, they quickly moved on and didn't focus on it.

If it hasn't happened yet, I imagine it will, that there will be men that make you feel sexy and special and give you a positive self image of your boobs. Even if you might feel that way in private with said gentleman, it will feel good to have a physical asset that is so special to them that they rave about it and consider your physical gifts to be more amazing than any other woman they've seen, while primarily liking you for who you are. It happens. So don't get discouraged.

As a guy I can't see why it bothers you so much, not that I don't feel for you, I do. But unless men are bugging you all the time why not just enjoy what you've been given?
Men experience the same thing but opposite, as a bodybuilder I can't wear what "normal' guys do because if I do everybody says I'm showing off. I just say no I want to be comfortable too, why is it different for me!? Anyway, I can understand how you feel, and I wish the best for you. It looks like you have real pretty hair.

i hate to agree with acid here, but he does have a point. with that dress on, no one is gonna look u in the eye.

ugh this is why i don't friend any guys on EP. i don't get dressed thinking where will guys stare today. i wear what i like and you pervs just cant help yourself. just so you know there are plenty of men out there that don't do what you do because they have class. good luck creep

creep? lol.. ok firstly, i'm a girl and even i cudn't look anywhere else but right there. and dont get me wrong, i'm not saing that u shud cover urself up. but since u wrote a story about how u seem to be attracting so much attention i feel obligated to tell u that its not the breasts, its how u portray ur breasts. if i wear a dress similar to urs, i'm going to attract attention too, and i'm a small breasted female. i'm sure acid didn't mean anything else either. thanx for all the best wishes though. i wish u luck too.

You should not take the glances as bad attention, take them as compliments. But I can understand that you would LOVE just to pass as everybody else. But you should probably accept that you are so special that everybody wants to take a sneak as your appearance is so nice. So take it as compliments and BE PROUD !!

Would love to meet you and suckle you