He Has a Point

I spoke to "B" last night. He said, "You're ending it over one incident, forgetting about everything else we shared."

He does have a point. But I made my point too. How I was frightened, didn't understand, questioned if I shared the same values with him considering the kind of choice he made.  I told him how I started going to Al-Anon to process the feelings.

What's amazing about him is that he's incredibly non-judgemental. He sees my shortcomings and so accepts them without a word. One of my major shortcomings is being very short with people, and if they offend me I just cut them off. No dialogue, nothing. I'm pretty harsh. Really harsh.

But I still don't know what I'll do. I am enjoying taking care of me, taking care of my home, having a love affair with me. Flirting and the possibility of being with someone new. I am on day 18 of my love affair with me, and Day 21 will mean I have created a habit! YAy!

beautytruth beautytruth
46-50, F
2 Responses Sep 30, 2009

LaFemme--how kind of you to share your thoughts. Thank you so much. I realize there are no single pat answers, and whatever I choose (and I don't have to choose right this second) all will be well.

Breaking up is never easy and you obviously know now what YOU need. It's time to open up a new door. You go girl!!!!