It's Now Or NeverIt has been 8 long years since the shocking discovery of his affair. Just like all marital affair, I pray and hope it will go away but it never did. Life was extremely painful for me, a working professional with two growing sons. Much tears were shed in silence. The thought of leaving was always there but I was unable to do it. Emotionally I was not ready to let go the 20 years marriage and also, my sons' wishes for an intact family. Despite my pain, I stayed on to keep a peaceful home to ensure my sons studies were not affected by my marital problem. I believe they knew what I was going though and my sacrifices.
My elder graduated with a high dinstinction and is currently working in Overseas while the younger one is living with him and pursuing Architectuaral Studies. I visit them occasionally. Today I am emotionally and financially stronger. And, the most beautiful part is I had told him that I want out from this marriage! Both the children are giving me the blessing.
Others may not understand why I stayed in such indignified marriage but I have no regret.
herlyn 46-50 5 Responses 0 Sep 5, 2010