Not having intimacy makes sex horrible in my opinion. My husband does not care a thing about true intimacy and I dont want him to touch me at all. Not having the holding and  touching makes me feel used. I always tell him I am not an automatic p*$$! machine and that if we had more of this or that everything would be better in the sack. He dont get it though.

notmylife notmylife
36-40, F
1 Response Mar 17, 2009

I have been there and it is a horrible feeling