A Bit Of Both!!

you know, i always wonder about *Iust* and *love*, and what sort of influence they have on us, and this is what i think:


lust if the kind of emotion, that first attracts us to people!! its what we see with our eyes!! we all have certain things we fancy and dont fancy in a partner from a physical point of view, like hair colour, eye colour, build, size and so on, so from a physical perspective, anyone can look at someone else and say "wow, he/she is really hot!!!", and sometimes you can even get people that are really attractive, but from your own perspective, you fail to see why!! cos we all like different things in a partner!!


love comes from the heart, so, quite often you can get together with someone that you think is really hot, but once you get to know them a bit better, you end up not having the same sort of attractiveness towards them, so although you find them attractive, you could never love them as a partner, cos you dont feel anything for them, in that sort of way!!!


basically what im trying to say is that although there is a difference between *lust* and *love*, its all about finding the right amount of each, in order to be happy, cos you could never (well i couldnt anyway) just love someone for the rest of your life, if you just love them for who they are inside and not find them all that attractive!!! and i doubt anyone could ever live with someone, just being in lust with them for the rest of their life without feeling any love towards them as a person!!!

cowshed123 cowshed123
36-40, M
1 Response Feb 21, 2010

I agree, almost everything in life is about trying to find balance and avoid extremes. I don't like to see relationships where people look just like friends and not truly attracted to one another or the opposite.