Men Don't Talk

There are MANY theories on why men talk less then women, but I know the REAL reason why men don't talk!!

WOMEN remember EVERYTHING!! So SMART men DON'T TALK!!

AlwaysRemembers AlwaysRemembers
41-45, F
19 Responses Apr 20, 2007

well if they do talk, they better be telling the truth , that's for certain or they will get caught in a lie.

Men will talk more around women when they feel secure around her. But, sometimes it never happens.......even in marriage.

might be true never thought about it much?

Well, here's my two sense - I think they talk until they withdraw emotionally.

I personally think alot of it stems from childhood, either influences of parents, also genetics plays a roll, but most of the men I have known that are more silent are the ones who suffer in silence because of being discouraged and or emotionally/physically abused, even in the lighter sense can cause a man to be somewhat of a loner, they just close up, it is safer for many that way as they look at it. Not that I am saying this is the answer but some of the reasons. My husband is a talker and a listener, he had tons of support as a child and genetically has a caring heart. But many I have seen come and go did not have many of their needs met.. Just my opinion.. *smiles* CindySue (Mystic)

I personally think alot of it stems from childhood, either influences of parents, also genetics plays a roll, but most of the men I have known that are more silent are the ones who suffer in silence because of being discouraged and or emotionally/physically abused, even in the lighter sense can cause a man to be somewhat of a loner, they just close up, it is safer for many that way as they look at it. Not that I am saying this is the answer but some of the reasons. My husband is a talker and a listener, he had tons of support as a child and genetically has a caring heart. But many I have seen come and go did not have many of their needs met.. Just my opinion.. *smiles* CindySue (Mystic)

I personally think alot of it stems from childhood, either influences of parents, also genetics plays a roll, but most of the men I have known that are more silent are the ones who suffer in silence because of being discouraged and or emotionally/physically abused, even in the lighter sense can cause a man to be somewhat of a loner, they just close up, it is safer for many that way as they look at it. Not that I am saying this is the answer but some of the reasons. My husband is a talker and a listener, he had tons of support as a child and genetically has a caring heart. But many I have seen come and go did not have many of their needs met.. Just my opinion.. *smiles* CindySue (Mystic)

It should read "women remember only the incriminating things to use later on in an argument"

yeah man can be like that. But to be sincere I think that men dont talk much because despite their :in control"exterior, man often feel like impostors and are insecure that their inadequacies will be discovered therefore they just shut their mouths.

Well actually WHILE men may not talk, the ongoing joke is that women once married nolonger feel the need to offer up, as often, oral sex. NOW men, if you don't want us to talk, entice us (wink, wink, nudge, nudge)

wow.. ;) good point there!

YEAAAAAAAAAA!! There is hope, lol. A while ago i met a man who noy only TALKS but LISTENS too (figures he's married). Iniyially noy knowing the akien, i thought he was just puttinh on his BEST side, but guess what? He wasn't, that is just who he is, SHOCK. Now please (with all the dirty minds here ;) I also adore his wife and he is like a big brother too me.

LOL true true. My pappa never spoke because of my ma'ama. Then in order to protect himself from her, he went senile.<br />
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But seriously, is there any hope for men finally talking? I can get some out of my fiance occasionally, but it's rare. What is the key, and where do I find it?

Well WE ARE the center of OUR universe, giggles!! Perhaps if you could TRY to talk about ANYTHING other than work, money or the cleanliness of the house, we MIGHT give you the chance to speak, BUT don't forget, whatever you DO say, will come back to HAUNT you even 20 years from now, lol. Sorry guys, it's part of the beast, but ya love us anyway ;)

No matter what we say or what it is about it the conversation always comes back to you. So we quit trying.

LOL johnwad, sorry I didn't hear what you said, giggles!! Thanks for my morning smile!!

No way you got it wrong the real reason men don't talk to women is because we can't get a word in!!!!!

Good one!!

That's a good one. My man does not talk. I don't have a lot of friends so this can be frustrating at times. Is there any hope?