The Real Me

The real me is the opposite of what men are attracted to. I am not tall and skinny. I have very short hair. I wear glasses. I could wear a realistic looking blonde wig, put on blue contacts(prescription), makeup, form-fitting clothes, and high heels, and I'm sure I'd get looks. But the real me does not. I give up hope on finding a mate that would be attracted to me. Not only that, but have the interests as me. I keep thinking of joining a religious society. Not moving into a community, but living it in my home. There is the SSPX. I wouldn't be doing it because I feel unwanted and uneligable to find a man. The idea just keeps coming into my head. I feel like I've fighting a losing battle dating in my life thus far. Like I'm going against my preordained grain.

 

La Fea y bonita

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26-30
4 Responses Mar 6, 2010

GOD will always win Kitty. If you feel you are fighting against HIM, HE won't give in until you surrender to HIM. That's a promise!

The guys who just want blondeness and boobies are boring. You want a guy with some depth and something going on in his brain besides instinctual urges. Once you go down that path of trying to make yourself the perfect woman, well just look at that freak Heidi from the Hills who had model looks to start with and just had 30 surgeries. <br />
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No, I don't follow that sh**, my sister does.<br />
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Wear wigs and heels all the time if you just want lots of casual sex, but I don't really get that impression from you.

Not "all" "men" seek a blond busty bimbo, is this not just a wee bit stereotypicalising "all" "men" ?

I am calling this one BS. You can have a man if you wanted one.<br />
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It's not that men are so superficial that your changing anything is required. <br />
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You need only change one thing, your expectations.<br />
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I am a fat, middle aged, ugly girl/man who has found someone to spend my life with.<br />
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You either expect too much and push them away ... Or more likely you just stopped trying.<br />
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I don't say this with the intent of being hurtfull. I am sure you are a lovely woman...<br />
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I just know for sure that there are people of every shape, size, and color. Somehow they manage.