I Don't Know If You Really Are A Dom And You Certainly Are Not My Dom...

I know many of you have had a lot of problems with the so called wannabe's out here on EP. And even some of the experienced, don't know better Dom's do this sometimes too.

Amazingly enough, I don't have too many problems with them.  I do believe because I am outspoken and not shy about calling a fake a fake, they have essentially left me be.  Yes, I have gotten my share of hate mail though.

Every now and again I will get the occasional one that will post on my WB, "Add Me".  And of course, I DON'T.  I don't need the drama or the so called experience of someone who has chosen to be something they are not.

Just be aware there are several of these wannabe's out here and they are preying on those of you that don't have the knowledge or experience to be able to call them off their perch.

You ever have an issue with someone or don't know how to tell if you are getting played.  Please feel free to ask!

Hugs to all!
SunniL SunniL
46-50, F
4 Responses Jan 17, 2013

Its about mutual respect and trust in each other tempered of course by deep love...ive been in a relationship for 27 years. I as a Dom gay guy get pleasurse from fulfilling my partners hopes and loves as well as filling mine

The chest thumping fakes leave me be for the most part too now...... The Doms who I do talk too totally ROCK!!

I'm pretty lucky too; I get rid of any crap/idiots early on, and as a result I have a few great Dom buddies from EP. I don't indulge the misogynists on EP either, so that helps.

They are out there breeding in some sort of pod just waiting for their next opportunity to attack.... Okay, maybe that's a bit dramatic but you are so right. I have met a few and learned a bit the hard way. SirS told me long ago that with patience comes great reward. Made more sense after a few slip ups than it did when he first said it. Newness had my mind in a warp. Good friends here have helped me pick myself up, dust myself off and press on. Glad you're back Sunni....

I laughed out loud at your first line...ahaha

Ha! It's silly but it sure does seem that way for those of us that are still wet behind the ears...

It's nice and warm here in the pod!