I Learned Something From My First Love

Learned The Hard Way

By: BobFrost

Written on October 16th, 2010

I learned from my first love that you can be taken for a fool and lied too. I was so young and so serious that I was blind sided by the lies and cheating during my teenage years. I lived in a fantasy world and trusted her too easy. I believed everything she said and was brought down to reality by the back and forth for 8 horrible years. I don't take anything for granted and now, along with other issues, don't trust anyone so easy. I learned that trust must be earned first. I am always on my toes and sometimes always wait for the other shoe to drop because like Muphy's Law always says:

What can go wrong, will go wrong.

By: BobFrost

Age: 36-40 , Male

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8 responses

BobFrost

80 is old to me too...anything under that age...I feel as if you have much more life to live...even if your in your 70's..

LOL It's okay :)

Oct 30, 2010
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Barbara726

Ya know, I don't feel old. Some dude ( I was, ahem, on an adult site) asked me if I had never married, because I said I didn't know what an old man's equipment looked like. 80 is old to me. Since I'm my age and my husband is close to me in age. My husband is younger than I am. It just never dawned on me that I am old. Sh-t! Brought my sick *** down. Here I am wanting to cuddle with you and feel your hot breath on my neck as you nibble me, I was brought low, low, low. I don't look that old. Men turn and look at me. Is it because they've never seen such a nut? Husband says men don't turn and follow a woman entering a room if she's ugly or nutty. Anyway, sorry to your wife, but you were breathing on my neck and nuzzling my ear, nibbling it in an aroused manner.............

Oct 26, 2010
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BobFrost

You can be guarded and love at the same time, right Kink?

Oct 24, 2010
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KinkyFlower

you're right bob...it would take a great miracle for me to ever trust him. not that there is any reason i shouldn't trust him...just a feeling that i shouldn't....too risky. way too much risk in getting hurt...and even though i'd be willing, i know on his end...there is no emotion...he's just emotionless about everything.

Oct 17, 2010
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billskins

Good story Bob, the same thing has just finished happening to me. My trust has also gone, but I have learnt it has to be earnt. So that is a good thing.

Oct 17, 2010
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BobFrost

I have to think on this more. I'm not sure if I want to tell you to trust or to say guarded...but then again, most of us have our minds made up, right Kink?

Oct 16, 2010
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KinkyFlower

Trust is something i've been having a hard time with lately myself. one person is all it takes to **** that up....i want to trust him, but...i know better. that has also effected my thinking when it comes to others as well.

Oct 16, 2010
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ArabianMonster

But at least you had experience. At least you had a chance to fall in love and learn so much from it. Nobody ever gets that chance, and nobody realizes just how much your relationship, especially the first one, reveals a lot about yourself.

So power to you Mr. Frost, for having the courage and will to fall in love, especially when it hurt.

Oct 16, 2010
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