Very Important Lesson
My first love definitely taught me to trust someone's actions more than their words. What someone says can sound good and promising, but if they are doing the opposite of what they say, then that's the part of them that is really speaking to you. My mom always told me that a great predictor of future behavior is past behavior. So from now on if a guy tells me that he's going to change, I tell him to show me because your actions speak so loud that I can't hear what you say.