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I Learned Something From My First Love

My First Love Was So Hard!

By: Aphrodisiac90
Written on August 28th, 2012
I fell in love with my first boyfriend when I was 14. To me he was amazing and could do no wrong! We had fun together, I lost my virginity to him and 4 months later he dumped me because he said I was too clingy ( to be fair I probably was). We kept texting each other and seeing each other for a couple of months, he was just using me, but I thought he wanted to be with me. I don't regret what happen because it made me who I am today! I just wish I hadn't fallen so hard for him!
By: Aphrodisiac90
Age: 22-25 , Female
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14 responses
  • DarkSoulsShallBeMineRIP
    DarkSoulsShallBeMineRIP

    Wish i could find a clingy woman but i fell in love my first love was age 28 waste of my 3 months of hell good luck !!!

    Nov 4, 2012
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    • Aphrodisiac90
      Aphrodisiac90

      Thanks!! :) hope u find someone too, if u haven't already!

      Nov 4, 2012
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    • DarkSoulsShallBeMineRIP
      DarkSoulsShallBeMineRIP

      Thank you :) Yeah it sucks being lonely ..But you know there is all these partners who play mind games with people..And honestly i long deserve a
      nice woman to love and age makes no difference to me

      Nov 4, 2012
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    • Aphrodisiac90
      Aphrodisiac90

      I agree!! Age does not matter when it comes to love! There are plenty of people who don't play mind games, it's all about finding the one right for u :)

      Nov 4, 2012
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  • rknst74
    rknst74

    At 14 and being your first of course you fell hard.I think everyone falls hard for their first love.Thankfully we get older and realize how life works and there is much better times after we get over those early first loves.

    Oct 11, 2012
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    • Aphrodisiac90
      Aphrodisiac90

      Yes, that is true!! He was such a **** as well!! I can't understand what I ever saw in him! Lol!

      Oct 11, 2012
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    • rknst74
      rknst74

      That is young love/lust,we all go through.don't be so hard on yourself just enjoy the memories of the good times.

      Oct 11, 2012
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  • Ginteru1
    Ginteru1

    So hard? SO HARD?
    I wish I was in your shoes compared to what I had to suffer through. Come on.

    Sep 26, 2012
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  • debmii143
    debmii143

    thats good that you dont regret anything :)...umm I'm doing an assignment and I dont wanna seem rude but since you lost your virginity while you were at school and when you were 14 I was wondering what changed after that happened did your grades slip? , were you emotionally unstabled?... basically what was the negativety for you losing your virginity while you were in high school and at such a young age?

    Sep 2, 2012
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    • Aphrodisiac90
      Aphrodisiac90

      To be honest, my grades only got better through the entirety of school, not that I think loosing my virginity had anything to do with that, I am just clever ;) lol! And I was emotionally unstable anyway, I had severe depression due to unrelated things, in fact, having sex was a real boost to my confidence and really helped me through a tough time. Basically, sex was my security blanket. The only negative thing that came of loosing my virginity so early was that I became slightly obsessed with it, I had sex buddies who I would sleep with during lunch at school. Like I said though, I don't regret what happened, I had fun and isn't that what we live for?

      Sep 4, 2012
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  • Sinjin1503
    Sinjin1503

    Love is one of the most amazing things in the world.

    sometimes we might not find it no a days in this world.

    the slatest chance their is take it cuz you never know if you might ever find it again,

    but if he dumps you it means a better person is coming and meant for you.

    koodos for being strong girl :)

    Aug 31, 2012
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  • louisboss84
    louisboss84

    love somebody is not a crime. but keep faith there is god to do the right justice to u. soon an angel will come to ur life.

    Aug 29, 2012
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