This Goes Out To All Teenagers!As a teenager, I understand what goes through the adolescent mind. Love is one of the first things on it. If you think you’re in love at a young age, more than likely you’re not. When I was 16 I thought I was in love for the first time with an older guy online who lived hundreds of miles away from me. He left me for another woman who was pregnant when they met. He broke my heart in the worst way I thought was possible. I thought I would never get over it because I was young and he fell in love with a woman who was probably trying to pin a baby that wasn’t his on him. Some time went by and I found myself over it. I went from completely crushed to being a normal teenager again.
Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you’re going to be with the person you feel love with forever. If you do that, you’re just going to get yourself hurt. My advice to you is to go out and mature yourself. If you want to be sexually active make sure it’s protected and safe sex. You don’t want to be a kid and have a STD or end up pregnant. Go to college and figure out what you’re going to do with your life. Meet new people and discover interesting cultures. Make the best out of your high school and college years because that is what’s going to be in your memories. Losing your first love will hurt a lot, trust me, but eventually they’ll fade away in your thoughts and heart and when you’re older you will find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.