Have always said it is better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you are not.... Mahal my dear friend, we have been though thick and thick, we won't talk about how many phone calls it takes...
I am one of many who believe that you will not let the "idea" that you failed in your "marriage" define you for the rest of your life. We have discussed at length many things ranging in size of cells to the size of the universe and I think as I have always thought that you know how to control your own destiny, how to take hold of your own life and be able to make the most of it. I know that you will not let things that are out of your control define much less rule you to take you down to their level. You are much better than that and I know you will succeed...
MT who would have known that the first person I wrote to on EP when I first arrived would end up to be a dear lifelong friend. I will succeed because I have people like you right by my side who will make sure I get my act together. :)
Isn't that what lifelong friends are for??? Keeping each other together when the world tries to tear them apart?? ;-) Always available when you need a little sunshine blown up your ***... HAHAHAHA!!!!
This is one of those things that in theory simple enough to do but in reality it isn't. Im just determined not to let my failed marriage define who I am. I am desperate to rid myself of all the baggage. I dont want to be petrified anymore of falling in love.