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I'm Black, I Love Japanese Men?

I am not sure when this started, but it's something that I have been feeling for awhile. Of course, I am ridiculed by my family who thinks I am abandoning black guys. How is that? I think Black guys are good-looking and great guys. But, I love Japanese men. Why is it that black women have to limit themselves to only black guys? I don't understand that. When we like someone else, it's looked upon as negative, self-hate, or following the crowd? I cannot help the way I feel. I have dated Japanese guys and I love them. Am I wrong? I don't think so. I learned not to really care as much anymore what people think.
Japanesesakura Japanesesakura 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 4, 2011

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Congrats! Not for coming to the realization that you love Japanese men, but for having your own mind. Whether or not you find a Black man or an Asian man to be your soulmate for the rest of your life...what's great about it is... it's your soulmate...and it's of your choosing.

Yahoooo!

I am a multiracial gay guy (but looks mostly white) who only dates Chinese guys, so I have the whole thing of dating my own sex, and outside my own nationality against me, and I still don't care what people think. I'm not wrong. I'm very happy!

As long as you love him,<br />
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Is good.

As long as you love him,<br />
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Is good.